బతికి ఉంటే గరిటెడు పాలు ఇవ్వడు గానీ, చస్తే సమాధిపై ఆవును కట్టేస్తా అన్నట్లు
batiki unte garitedu palu ivvadu gani, chaste samadhipai avunu kattesta annatlu
He wouldn't give a spoonful of milk while alive, but says he will tie a cow to the grave after death.
This proverb describes hypocrisy or fake devotion. It is used to mock people who neglect someone's basic needs when they are alive but pretend to honor them with grand, useless gestures after they pass away. It highlights the irony of showing 'generosity' when it no longer benefits the recipient.
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కత్తేస్తావా, బద్దేస్తావా అన్నట్లు
kattestava, baddestava annatlu
Like asking, 'Will you take the scissors or the stick?'
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is forced to choose between two equally difficult or unpleasant options, or when someone is being interrogated/threatened with no easy way out. It implies a 'stuck between a rock and a hard place' scenario where both outcomes are undesirable.
చస్తుంటే సంధ్యమంత్రం చెప్పమన్నట్లు
chastunte sandhyamantram cheppamannatlu
Like asking someone to recite evening prayers while they are dying.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone gives impractical, ill-timed, or pedantic advice during a critical crisis. It refers to a person focusing on trivial rituals or formalities when immediate life-saving action or empathy is required.
పగలు చస్తే వాటికి లేదు, రాత్రి చస్తే దీపము లేదు
pagalu chaste vatiki ledu, ratri chaste dipamu ledu
If one dies during the day, there is nothing for the mouth; if one dies at night, there is no lamp.
This proverb describes a state of extreme, wretched poverty where a family lacks even the most basic resources to perform funeral rites. It is used to highlight situations of utter destitution where someone has nothing to fall back on, regardless of the timing or circumstances of their hardship.
బతికితే భూదానం, చస్తే గోదానం
batikite bhudanam, chaste godanam
Land donation if one lives, cow donation if one dies.
This proverb refers to someone who is in a critical, life-threatening situation where they are making desperate promises or sacrifices regardless of the outcome. It is often used to describe a 'win-win' situation for a priest or a middleman who benefits from a person's rituals whether they survive (through land offerings) or pass away (through cow offerings for the soul's journey).
పగలు చస్తే వత్తికి లేదు, రాత్రి చస్తే దీపానికి లేదు.
pagalu chaste vattiki ledu, ratri chaste dipaniki ledu.
If he dies in the day, there is no rice to put in his mouth; if he dies in the night, there is no oil for a lamp. Rice is put into the mouth of the dead at the funeral ceremony. Said of a miserably poor person.
This proverb is used to describe an extreme state of poverty or a situation of absolute misfortune where one lacks even the most basic resources for necessary rituals. It highlights a state of utter helplessness where no matter when or how a problem arises, the means to address it are completely absent.
పగలు చస్తే వత్తికి లేదు, రాత్రి చస్తే దీపానికి లేదు
pagalu chaste vattiki ledu, ratri chaste dipaniki ledu
If one dies during the day there is no wick, if one dies at night there is no lamp.
This proverb describes a state of extreme poverty or a sequence of unfortunate timings where basic necessities are unavailable regardless of the situation. It is used to highlight a person's miserable condition where they lack resources for even essential rites or survival, no matter when or how the need arises.
చూడబోతే రంకు, చూడకుంటే బింకం
chudabote ranku, chudakunte binkam
If you look closely, it's a scandal; if you don't look, it's pride.
This proverb is used to describe a situation or person that appears respectable and dignified on the outside, but hides shameful or immoral secrets within. It highlights the hypocrisy of maintaining a grand public image while being corrupt or unethical in private.
బతికితే అతిసారం, చస్తే కలరా
batikite atisaram, chaste kalara
If one survives, it is diarrhea; if one dies, it is cholera.
This expression is used to describe a 'no-win' or 'lose-lose' situation where both possible outcomes are negative or undesirable. It highlights a predicament where the choice is between a minor ailment and a fatal one, implying that there is no truly good option available.
బ్రతికి ఉండగా పాలు లేదు గాని, చచ్చిన వెనక గంగిగోవును దానం చేస్తానన్నట్టు.
bratiki undaga palu ledu gani, chachchina venaka gangigovunu danam chestanannattu.
While he lived no milk was given to him, but he was pro- mised that a sacred cow would be presented [on his ac- count] to a Brahman, after his death.
This proverb describes a hypocritical or ironic situation where someone neglects a person's basic needs when they are alive or in need, but makes grand, expensive gestures of charity or honor once they are gone. It is used to criticize people who perform showy acts of virtue too late to be of any actual help.
గాడిదకు గడ్డివేసి ఆవును పాలిమ్మన్నట్లు
gadidaku gaddivesi avunu palimmannatlu
Like feeding grass to a donkey and asking a cow for milk
This expression describes an illogical or foolish expectation where someone invests resources or effort in one place (often the wrong place) and expects results from another. It highlights the absurdity of hoping for a specific outcome without putting in the relevant effort or supporting the right source.