జామాత దశమగ్రహః

jamata dashamagrahah

Translation

The son-in-law is the tenth planet.

Meaning

In Hindu astrology, there are nine planets (Navagrahas) that influence a person's life. This humorous expression labels the son-in-law as the 'tenth planet,' implying he must be treated with even more care, respect, and caution than the actual celestial bodies to avoid his displeasure. It is used to describe the special, sometimes demanding, status a son-in-law holds in an Indian household.

Related Phrases

Planet Saturn

In a literal sense, it refers to the planet Saturn. Figuratively, it is used to describe a person who brings bad luck, constant trouble, or unwanted persistence. It is often used as a slang term for someone who is annoying or whose presence seems to cause obstacles and misery in one's life.

An Agrahâram which should not be touched or felt. An Agrahâram is a Brahman village or quarter. Said of any thing that should scrupulously be avoided.

This expression is used to describe a person or a place that is excessively sensitive, overly formal, or extremely difficult to approach. It often refers to someone who maintains an air of superiority or someone who is so fragile or rigid that others avoid interacting with them to prevent causing offense or breaking strict rules.

No matter which planet influences you, anger should not possess you.

This proverb emphasizes emotional control and patience. In Telugu culture, 'Graha' refers to planetary influences believed to cause bad luck or hardships. The saying suggests that even when one is facing extreme misfortune or a 'bad phase' (astrologically speaking), they must not lose their temper, as anger only worsens the situation and leads to further ruin.

An untouchable village (Agrahara).

This phrase is used to describe a person who is extremely sensitive, overly defensive, or someone who considers themselves too superior to be approached or criticized. It literally refers to an Agrahara (a village granted to scholars) that is kept so secluded or pure that no one can touch or enter it. In a modern context, it's used sarcastically to describe someone who acts as if they are above everyone else or cannot be questioned.

The gaze of Saturn and the grace of Mercury.

This expression is used to describe a situation or a person's temperament where they appear harsh, stern, or critical on the outside (like the perceived malefic influence of Saturn), but possess a kind, helpful, and intellectual heart (like the benefic nature of Mercury). It refers to tough love or a strict mentor who ultimately wishes for one's well-being.

As if the nine planets were out of their course. Said of a family at sixes and sevens.

This expression is used to describe a period of extremely bad luck or a situation where everything that can go wrong is going wrong. In Vedic astrology, the alignment of the nine planets (Navagrahas) influences one's fate; if they are 'crooked' or 'vakra', it signifies a time of great misfortune and obstacles.

An untouchable village (Agraharam).

This expression is used to describe something that is extremely exclusive, isolated, or difficult to access. It often refers to people or places that maintain a high degree of distance, secrecy, or strict boundaries, making them unreachable for others.

Like taking an oath in a fit of passion.

This expression describes a situation where someone makes a rash decision or a solemn promise in a fit of rage, which they eventually regret or find difficult to uphold once they calm down. It is used to caution against making life-altering commitments when one is not in a stable emotional state.

Like making a vow in a fit of rage.

This expression refers to decisions made or actions taken in anger that one eventually regrets. It is used when someone impulsively commits to something difficult or harmful to themselves while being emotional, only to realize the burden of that commitment later when they have calmed down.

Like the nine planets turning against you

This expression is used to describe a situation where everything that can go wrong is going wrong at once. In astrology, 'Vakra' refers to retrograde or unfavorable positioning of planets. It describes a period of extreme bad luck or a series of unfortunate events where one feels like the entire universe is conspiring against them.