కంచం ఇచ్చి మెట్టె పెట్టించుకున్నా కానలేడు మొగుడు
kancham ichchi mette pettinchukunna kanaledu mogudu
Even after giving a plate and having a toe ring put on, the husband cannot see it.
This proverb describes a person who is extremely unobservant, dull-witted, or indifferent. It refers to a situation where someone fails to notice something glaringly obvious or a significant gesture, even after being explicitly prompted or provided with all the necessary tools to recognize it.
Related Phrases
డబ్బు ఇచ్చి తేలు కుట్టించుకొన్నట్లు
dabbu ichchi telu kuttinchukonnatlu
Like paying money to get stung by a scorpion.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone spends money or effort only to invite trouble or harm upon themselves. It refers to self-inflicted misery or bad investments that lead to painful consequences.
ఓలి ఇచ్చిన మొగుడికంటే కూలి ఇచ్చిన మొగుడెక్కువ
oli ichchina mogudikante kuli ichchina mogudekkuva
A husband who pays wages is more significant than a husband who pays the bride price.
This proverb highlights pragmatism over tradition. 'Oli' is a traditional bride price paid at marriage, while 'Kuli' refers to daily wages or immediate support. It suggests that a person who provides for one's immediate needs and livelihood is more valuable than someone who merely fulfilled a traditional or ceremonial obligation in the past.
ఏడ్చి తద్దినం పెట్టించుకున్నట్లు
edchi taddinam pettinchukunnatlu
Like crying and getting a death anniversary performed.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone performs a task or fulfills an obligation with great reluctance, lack of interest, or while complaining, rather than doing it willingly or happily. It implies that the person is doing something just for the sake of finishing it, often ruining the spirit of the activity.
చేతిసొమ్ము ఇచ్చి చెప్పుతో కొట్టించుకున్నట్లు
chetisommu ichchi chepputo kottinchukunnatlu
Like paying money from one's own pocket to get beaten with a slipper.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone spends their own resources (money, time, or effort) only to end up being insulted, humiliated, or facing negative consequences because of that very action. It highlights the irony of self-inflicted trouble.
కత్తి మెత్తనా అత్త మంచీ లేదు.
katti mettana atta manchi ledu.
There is no softness in a sword, nor goodness in a mother-in- law.
This is a traditional proverb used to describe situations or relationships that are inherently difficult or sharp by nature. Just as a knife cannot fulfill its purpose if it is soft, the proverb suggests that the relationship with a mother-in-law is traditionally expected to be strict or stern rather than purely 'soft' or 'kind'. It is often used to comment on the inevitable friction in certain roles or power dynamics.
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నన్నమ్మకు మొగుడు, తిమ్మన్న తల్లికి మొగుడు.
nannammaku mogudu, timmanna talliki mogudu.
A husband to Nannamma, and a husband to Timmanna's mother.
This expression is used to describe someone who is extremely clever, cunning, or a 'know-it-all' who thinks they can outsmart anyone. It refers to a person who claims superiority over those who are already considered experts or authorities in a particular field, often used in a sarcastic tone to highlight someone's overconfidence or manipulative nature.
కంచు మోగినట్టు కనకము మోగునా
kanchu moginattu kanakamu moguna
Does gold ever ring like bell metal ?
This proverb highlights that valuable things or people of substance are often quiet and humble, whereas cheap or superficial things make a lot of noise. It is used to compare a wise, dignified person with a boastful, loud person, implying that quality doesn't need to shout to be noticed.
A wise man is sparing of his words, but a fool likes the sound of his own voice. A deluge of words and a drop of sense. " It is not the hen which cackles most that lays most eggs." (Dutch.)
కంచం అమ్మి మెట్టులు కొన్నట్లు
kancham ammi mettulu konnatlu
Like selling the plate to buy anklets.
This proverb describes a situation where someone sacrifices a basic necessity or a useful tool for a luxury or a useless ornament. It refers to poor financial judgment or misplaced priorities, specifically trading something essential for survival for something that is merely for show.
డబ్బిచ్చి చెప్పుతో కొట్టించుకున్నట్లు
dabbichchi chepputo kottinchukunnatlu
Like paying money to get beaten with a slipper.
This expression describes a situation where someone spends their own money or resources only to end up in trouble, humiliation, or a disadvantageous position. It is used when a self-inflicted problem arises from one's own investment or effort.
కంచము అమ్మి మెట్టెలు కొన్నట్టు
kanchamu ammi mettelu konnattu
Selling the dish and buying toe-rings. He has given the hen for the egg. (German.)
This proverb is used to describe a person who makes a foolish trade-off by giving up something essential or useful for something ornamental or trivial. It refers to misplaced priorities where one sacrifices a basic necessity (a plate for food) for a luxury or a decorative item (toe-rings).