ఏడ్చి తద్దినం పెట్టించుకున్నట్లు
edchi taddinam pettinchukunnatlu
Like crying and getting a death anniversary performed.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone performs a task or fulfills an obligation with great reluctance, lack of interest, or while complaining, rather than doing it willingly or happily. It implies that the person is doing something just for the sake of finishing it, often ruining the spirit of the activity.
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డబ్బు ఇచ్చి తేలు కుట్టించుకొన్నట్లు
dabbu ichchi telu kuttinchukonnatlu
Like paying money to get stung by a scorpion.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone spends money or effort only to invite trouble or harm upon themselves. It refers to self-inflicted misery or bad investments that lead to painful consequences.
తద్దినం కొని తెచ్చుకొన్నట్లు
taddinam koni techchukonnatlu
Like buying and bringing a funeral ceremony upon oneself.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or a burdensome task through their own actions. It implies that a person has self-inflicted a headache or problem that could have been easily avoided.
లంజకొడుకు తండ్రికి తద్దినం పెట్టినట్టు
lanjakoduku tandriki taddinam pettinattu
Like a bastard performing his father's annual ceremonies.
This expression is used to describe an act that is fundamentally hypocritical, logically inconsistent, or performed by someone who has no legitimate right or genuine respect for the tradition they are following. It refers to doing something just for outward appearance while the very identity or situation of the person contradicts the act itself.
అన్నం పెట్టినవారింటికి కన్నము పెట్టినట్లు
annam pettinavarintiki kannamu pettinatlu
Like breaking into the house of the person who fed you.
This expression describes extreme ingratitude or betrayal. It refers to a person who harms their benefactor or someone who has helped them in their time of need. It is used to condemn the act of biting the hand that feeds you.
తద్దినం కొని తెచ్చుకున్నట్టు
taddinam koni techchukunnattu
Like buying and bringing home a funeral ceremony.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or a burden upon themselves through their own actions. It implies that a problem which didn't exist was intentionally 'purchased' or brought home by the individual.
తప్పించుకోబోయి తగిలించుకున్నట్లు
tappinchukoboyi tagilinchukunnatlu
Like trying to escape one thing and getting stuck with another.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone tries to avoid a problem or a minor inconvenience, but in doing so, accidentally lands themselves in a bigger trouble or a different mess. It is similar to the English idiom 'Out of the frying pan and into the fire.'
పనసకాయ దొరికినప్పుడే తద్దినం పెట్టమన్నట్లు
panasakaya dorikinappude taddinam pettamannatlu
Like asking to perform a death anniversary ceremony just because a jackfruit was found.
This proverb describes someone who tries to force an event or a major task to happen prematurely just because they have one of the necessary ingredients or favorable conditions available at that moment. It highlights the absurdity of rushing significant rituals or plans based on minor, incidental conveniences rather than the appropriate time or necessity.
డబ్బిచ్చి చెప్పుతో కొట్టించుకున్నట్లు
dabbichchi chepputo kottinchukunnatlu
Like paying money to get beaten with a slipper.
This expression describes a situation where someone spends their own money or resources only to end up in trouble, humiliation, or a disadvantageous position. It is used when a self-inflicted problem arises from one's own investment or effort.
తద్దినం పెట్టేవాని తమ్మునివలె
taddinam pettevani tammunivale
Like the younger brother of the person performing the death anniversary ritual.
This expression is used to describe someone who stands around idly or avoids work while others are busy with a significant task. In traditional rituals, the person performing the ceremony is busy, but the younger brother often has no specific role and simply watches, signifying laziness or lack of responsibility during a time of action.
తద్దినము కొని తెచ్చుకొన్నట్టు.
taddinamu koni techchukonnattu.
Buying a Taddinam. Bringing difficulties upon one's own head.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily invites trouble or creates a headache for themselves by their own actions or choices. It is similar to the English expression 'to go looking for trouble' or 'asking for it.'
* Alterâ manu scabunt, altera ferunt.