పేదవాడి కోపం పెదవికి చేటు
pedavadi kopam pedaviki chetu
A poor man's anger is a harm to his own lip.
This proverb suggests that when a person with no power or resources gets angry, it only ends up hurting them further rather than affecting the person they are angry at. In practical terms, it means that the weak cannot afford to express anger against the strong as it only brings self-destruction or unnecessary trouble to themselves.
Related Phrases
కోపం పాపకారణం
kopam papakaranam
Anger is a cause of sin.
This expression highlights that anger often leads people to commit wrongful or sinful acts that they might later regret. It is used as a piece of advice to encourage self-control and emotional regulation, suggesting that one should stay calm to avoid negative consequences.
Anger is a sworn enemy. Anger is the fever and frenzy of the soul.
విడవమంటే పాముకు కోపం, పట్టమంటే కప్పకు కోపం.
vidavamante pamuku kopam, pattamante kappaku kopam.
If told to let go, the snake gets angry; if told to catch, the frog gets angry.
This proverb describes a dilemma or a 'catch-22' situation where any decision made will result in someone being offended or a negative outcome. It is used when a person is stuck between two conflicting parties or choices where satisfying one inevitably displeases the other.
పేదవాడి పెళ్ళాం ఊరికంతా వదిన
pedavadi pellam urikanta vadina
A poor man's wife is a sister-in-law to the whole village.
This proverb highlights how people tend to take liberties with those who lack social or financial standing. Just as a 'Vadina' (sister-in-law) is someone one can joke with or command in a traditional family, a poor person's family is often treated with a lack of respect or boundaries by everyone in society because they lack the power to protest.
హీనస్వరం పెళ్ళాం ఇంటికి చేటు
hinasvaram pellam intiki chetu
A wife with a low/melancholy voice is ruinous to the house.
This is a traditional proverb reflecting old superstitions. It suggests that a wife who always speaks in a weak, sad, or whining tone brings bad luck or negativity to a household. In a broader sense, it is used to describe how a constant pessimistic attitude can affect the prosperity of a family.
పేదవాని కోపము పెదవికి చేటు.
pedavani kopamu pedaviki chetu.
When a poor man is angry, he only bursts his own lips. Anger without power is folly. (German.) Anger makes a rich man hated, and a poor man scorned.
This proverb suggests that when a person with no power or resources gets angry, it only hurts them further rather than affecting others. It is used to describe a situation where expressing frustration is futile because the person lacks the influence to bring about change, often resulting in self-inflicted stress or negative consequences for themselves.
తల్లిమీది కోపం పిల్లమీద పోతుంది.
tallimidi kopam pillamida potundi.
Anger toward the mother is taken out on the child.
This proverb describes a situation where a person redirects their frustration or anger from its original source toward someone else who is vulnerable or associated with that source. It is used to point out unfair treatment where an innocent party suffers for someone else's mistake or due to a displaced grudge.
పేదల కోపం పెదవికి చేటు
pedala kopam pedaviki chetu
The anger of the poor is a danger to their own lips
This proverb implies that when people without power or resources get angry, they cannot harm those they are angry at; instead, they only end up hurting themselves. It is used to describe a situation where expressing frustration is futile or self-destructive due to one's lack of influence.
పేదవానికి పెండ్లామే ఆస్తి
pedavaniki pendlame asti
For a poor man, his wife is his only wealth.
This proverb suggests that for someone with no material possessions or financial resources, a supportive and hardworking life partner is their greatest asset and source of strength. It highlights the value of companionship and family over material riches in times of poverty.
కూటికి పేదయితే, కులానికి పేదా?
kutiki pedayite, kulaniki peda?
Though a man be poor, will he lose caste ?
This expression is used to remind others that being economically disadvantaged or lacking wealth does not mean a person lacks self-respect, dignity, or cultural identity. It suggests that poverty affects one's physical needs, but should not diminish their social standing or the respect they deserve.
పేదవాని పెళ్ళాం ఊరందరికీ వదిన
pedavani pellam urandariki vadina
A poor man's wife is a sister-in-law to the whole village.
This proverb illustrates how people in power or those with higher social status often take liberties with or lack respect for those who are vulnerable or lack protection. It suggests that when someone is poor or weak, everyone feels entitled to treat them with over-familiarity or disregard their dignity.