ఆడదాని బుద్ధి అపర బుద్ధి
adadani buddhi apara buddhi
A woman's sense is wrong sense.
This is a traditional Telugu proverb used to suggest that women think differently or more deeply than men, often implying that they come up with clever solutions later or have a unique perspective that isn't immediately obvious. While historically sometimes used dismissively, it is also used to acknowledge a woman's intuitive or strategic thinking.
Lit. in the back of the head.
Related Phrases
దొంగకు దొంగ బుద్ధి, దొరకు దొర బుద్ధి.
dongaku donga buddhi, doraku dora buddhi.
A thief has a thief's thoughts, a gentleman has a gentleman's thoughts.
This proverb means that a person's behavior and thinking are dictated by their character and inherent nature. A person with bad intentions will always act according to their devious nature, while a person of noble character will act with dignity and honor, regardless of the situation.
మొగబుద్ధి మోటుబుద్ది, ఆడుబుద్ది అపరబుద్ధి.
mogabuddhi motubuddi, adubuddi aparabuddhi.
A man's mind is a blunt mind, a woman's mind is a subtle/sharp mind.
This proverb contrasts the psychological natures of men and women. It suggests that men tend to be more straightforward, rough, or simple-minded (motu), whereas women possess a more complex, strategic, or far-reaching intelligence (apara buddhi). It is often used to comment on how women can see through situations or plan more effectively than men.
పుట్టిననాటి బుద్ధి పుడకలతోగాని పోదు.
puttinanati buddhi pudakalatogani podu.
The faggots of the funeral pile alone remove the [evil] qualities with which a man is born. What belongs to nature lasts to the grave. (Italian.)
This proverb suggests that a person's innate character, habits, or temperament are permanent and will never change throughout their lifetime. It is often used to describe someone who repeats the same mistakes or maintains certain personality traits despite efforts to change them, implying that only death can end such deep-seated behaviors.
జాతి బుద్ధి జాతిది - కులం బుద్ధి కులానిది
jati buddhi jatidi - kulam buddhi kulanidi
Species trait stays with the species - Clan trait stays with the clan
This expression suggests that inherent characteristics or basic instincts associated with one's origin, upbringing, or lineage are difficult to change. It is often used to point out that a person's fundamental behavior inevitably reflects their roots or true nature, regardless of external changes.
ఎద్దు ఉన్నవాడికి బుద్ధి ఉండదు, బుద్ధి ఉన్నవాడికి ఎద్దు ఉండదు.
eddu unnavadiki buddhi undadu, buddhi unnavadiki eddu undadu.
The one who has an ox lacks intelligence, and the one who has intelligence lacks an ox.
This proverb describes a situational irony where one person possesses the physical resources or tools but lacks the wisdom to use them, while another person has the knowledge but lacks the necessary resources. It is used to highlight the mismatch between ability and opportunity.
అత్త బుద్ధి, కోడలు బుద్ధి ఒకటవుతాయా?
atta buddhi, kodalu buddhi okatavutaya?
Will the mother-in-law's mindset and the daughter-in-law's mindset ever be the same?
This proverb highlights the inherent differences in perspectives, upbringing, and priorities between two people of different roles or generations. It is typically used to explain why conflicts or misunderstandings arise between people in a relationship, suggesting that their ways of thinking are naturally distinct and unlikely to perfectly align.
ఎద్దుకు గడ్డి, పీతకు బుద్ధి
edduku gaddi, pitaku buddhi
The porcupine has sense in the back of its head. Said of a man without brains.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone behaves perversely or acts contrary to logic and common sense. It highlights a mismatch in expectations or a stubborn, backward way of thinking, much like how a crab moves sideways instead of straight.
కుక్క బుద్ధి దాలిగుంటకు తెలుసు
kukka buddhi daliguntaku telusu
The hearth knows the dog's mindset.
This proverb is used to describe a person who cannot break their habits or keeps returning to the same place or behavior due to their inherent nature. Just as a dog always seeks the warmth of the ash-pit (daaligunta) despite being shooed away, some people repeatedly succumb to their weaknesses or old patterns.
బండకొయ్యకు బుద్ధి చెప్పినట్లు
bandakoyyaku buddhi cheppinatlu
Like trying to advise or teach a wooden log.
This expression is used to describe a situation where one tries to give advice or instructions to an extremely stubborn, thick-headed, or unresponsive person. It implies that any effort to change their mind or educate them is a complete waste of time, as they are as lifeless and unyielding as a piece of wood.
ఆడదాని బుద్ధి అపర బుద్ధి
adadani buddhi apara buddhi
A woman's wisdom is 'Apara' (afterthought or secondary) wisdom.
This traditional proverb suggests that women often think of consequences or solutions after an event has occurred (hindsight). In a modern context, it is also interpreted as women having an alternative or deeper perspective on things that men might overlook.