పుట్టిననాటి బుద్ధి పుడకలతోగాని పోదు.

puttinanati buddhi pudakalatogani podu.

Translation

The faggots of the funeral pile alone remove the [evil] qualities with which a man is born. What belongs to nature lasts to the grave. (Italian.)

Meaning

This proverb suggests that a person's innate character, habits, or temperament are permanent and will never change throughout their lifetime. It is often used to describe someone who repeats the same mistakes or maintains certain personality traits despite efforts to change them, implying that only death can end such deep-seated behaviors.

Related Phrases

A man's mind is a blunt mind, a woman's mind is a subtle/sharp mind.

This proverb contrasts the psychological natures of men and women. It suggests that men tend to be more straightforward, rough, or simple-minded (motu), whereas women possess a more complex, strategic, or far-reaching intelligence (apara buddhi). It is often used to comment on how women can see through situations or plan more effectively than men.

Species trait stays with the species - Clan trait stays with the clan

This expression suggests that inherent characteristics or basic instincts associated with one's origin, upbringing, or lineage are difficult to change. It is often used to point out that a person's fundamental behavior inevitably reflects their roots or true nature, regardless of external changes.

Will the mother-in-law's mindset and the daughter-in-law's mindset ever be the same?

This proverb highlights the inherent differences in perspectives, upbringing, and priorities between two people of different roles or generations. It is typically used to explain why conflicts or misunderstandings arise between people in a relationship, suggesting that their ways of thinking are naturally distinct and unlikely to perfectly align.

No matter how many times it is refined/processed, the innate nature does not go away.

This proverb is used to describe a person's inherent character or basic nature, suggesting that it is permanent and cannot be changed despite external efforts, education, or purification processes. It is often used when someone repeatedly exhibits the same flaws despite repeated attempts to correct them.

A woman's sense is wrong sense.

This is a traditional Telugu proverb used to suggest that women think differently or more deeply than men, often implying that they come up with clever solutions later or have a unique perspective that isn't immediately obvious. While historically sometimes used dismissively, it is also used to acknowledge a woman's intuitive or strategic thinking.

Lit. in the back of the head.

One's inherent nature does not leave until the funeral sticks.

This proverb suggests that a person's basic character or deep-seated habits are unchangeable throughout their lifetime. It implies that certain traits are so ingrained that they only vanish when a person dies (symbolized by the 'pudakalu' or twigs/sticks used in funeral pyres). It is used when observing someone who refuses to change their bad behavior despite many opportunities.

The will, intention or desire born in the skull goes away only with faggots (the funeral pyre).

When an evil thought is born in the mind, or if one is born with evil nature, it will not leave one until death. In-born wickedness is incurable.

Like trying to advise or teach a wooden log.

This expression is used to describe a situation where one tries to give advice or instructions to an extremely stubborn, thick-headed, or unresponsive person. It implies that any effort to change their mind or educate them is a complete waste of time, as they are as lifeless and unyielding as a piece of wood.

A camel's colic won't go away unless treated with pestles.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a severe or large-scale problem requires an equally strong or drastic measure to be solved. Just as a large animal like a camel needs a heavy tool (pestle) for treatment, major issues cannot be fixed with minor or delicate efforts.

A little stick in a sweet drink.

An interfering hindrance or a nuisance can be irritating. One who pokes one’s nose in a business not one’s own is disliked by all. It is wise for one to keep off other people’s affairs and mind one’s own business.