అత్తతో పోట్లాడి, తేరు చూడకుండా పోయినట్లు
attato potladi, teru chudakunda poyinatlu
Like picking a fight with the mother-in-law and leaving without seeing the temple chariot festival.
This proverb describes a situation where someone lets their anger or ego cause them to miss out on a great opportunity or a joyful event. It refers to a woman who, after arguing with her mother-in-law, leaves the village in a huff, thereby missing the grand chariot festival (Teeru) she had been waiting for. It is used to caution against self-defeating behavior driven by spite.
Related Phrases
కొండతో తగురు పోట్లాడినట్టు
kondato taguru potladinattu
Like a ram fighting with a mountain
This expression describes a situation where someone attempts a task that is far beyond their capability, or challenges an opponent who is vastly more powerful. It highlights the futility and inevitable self-destruction of such an uneven confrontation.
పండు పడకకు చెప్పకుండా పోయినాడు
pandu padakaku cheppakunda poyinadu
He left without telling the fruit or the bed.
This expression is used to describe someone who leaves a place very suddenly, secretly, or without informing anyone. It implies a quiet or abrupt departure where no one was given notice.
కొండతో తగరు పోట్లాడినట్టు.
kondato tagaru potladinattu.
Like a ram butting a mountain. Great conceit.
This proverb describes a situation where someone attempts to challenge or fight an opponent that is far more powerful or immovable than themselves. It highlights a futile effort where the weaker party only ends up hurting themselves while the stronger party remains unaffected.
గట్టు చేరిన వెనుక పుట్టినవానితో పోట్లాడినట్లు
gattu cherina venuka puttinavanito potladinatlu
Like picking a fight with the ferryman after reaching the shore.
This expression refers to a situation where a person displays ungratefulness or arrogance toward someone who helped them, immediately after the danger or need has passed. It describes the act of turning against a benefactor once their assistance is no longer required to ensure one's safety or success.
గట్టు చేరిన వెనక పుట్టివానితో పోట్లాడినట్టు
gattu cherina venaka puttivanito potladinattu
Like fighting with the ferry-man after getting over the river. The river past, the saint forgotten. (Spanish.)* The peril past, the saint mocked. (Italian.)
This proverb describes the behavior of ungrateful people who forget the help they received once their purpose is served. It is used to criticize someone who turns against their benefactor or helper as soon as they are out of danger or have achieved their goal.
పొక్కటి రాళ్ళకు పోట్లాడినట్లు
pokkati rallaku potladinatlu
Like fighting over pebbles used for a hearth.
This expression describes people who waste their energy and time fighting over trivial, worthless, or insignificant things. It is often used to mock unnecessary conflicts where the prize has no real value.
పొక్కిటి రాళ్లకు పోట్లాడినట్టు
pokkiti rallaku potladinattu
Fighting for the fire-dogs.
This expression describes people who engage in senseless or petty quarrels over things that are worthless or irrelevant. It originates from the imagery of someone fighting over the stones used to build a temporary cooking stove, which are easily available and hold no real value.
Pokkaṭi Rāḷḷu are three clods of earth, or round stones used as a tem- porary fire place. Quarrelling for something of no value.
గట్టు చేరిన వెనక పుట్టివానితో పోట్లాడినట్లు.
gattu cherina venaka puttivanito potladinatlu.
Like fighting with the boatman after reaching the shore.
This expression is used to describe a person who shows ingratitude or picks a fight with someone who helped them through a crisis, once the danger has passed and they no longer need that help. It highlights the behavior of being selfish and ungrateful.
ఏరు నిద్ర పోయినట్టు
eru nidra poyinattu
As the river sleeps. Smooth waters run deep. There is no worse water than that which sleeps. ( French. )
This expression is used to describe a person who appears very calm, innocent, or silent on the surface but possesses great depth, hidden strength, or potential danger. Just as a river looks still while having a powerful current underneath, it refers to someone whose true intentions or capabilities are not immediately visible.
పిలవని పేరంటానికి వెళ్లి తిట్లు తిన్నట్లు
pilavani perantaniki velli titlu tinnatlu
Going to a function uninvited and getting insulted.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone involves themselves in an event or matter where they are not welcome or invited, resulting in humiliation or a cold reception. It serves as a warning against interfering in others' affairs without being asked.