అప్పులున్న వాడి వెంట, చెప్పులున్న వాడి వెంట పోకూడదు.
appulunna vadi venta, cheppulunna vadi venta pokudadu.
Do not follow a person in debt, nor a person wearing sandals.
This proverb warns against following people who might cause trouble or leave you behind. A debtor might flee suddenly to escape creditors, leading you into their mess, while someone with sandals can walk faster through rough terrain, potentially leaving you stranded or forcing you to keep an unsustainable pace.
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అప్పున్నవాడితోటీ, చెప్పులున్నవాడితోటీ వెళ్ళకూడదంటారు.
appunnavaditoti, cheppulunnavaditoti vellakudadantaru.
They say one should not walk with a person who is in debt or a person wearing footwear.
This proverb advises against traveling with people who might slow you down or bring trouble. A person in debt might be stopped by creditors, causing delays or embarrassment to the companion. Similarly, in ancient times, walking with someone wearing sandals while you were barefoot (or vice-versa) created a mismatch in pace and social comfort. It is used to suggest that choosing the right company is essential for a smooth journey or venture.
అప్పులున్నవాడి వెంట చెప్పులున్న వాడి వెంట పోరాదు.
appulunnavadi venta cheppulunna vadi venta poradu.
Do not walk behind a debtor or someone wearing sandals.
This proverb warns against following people who are in a hurry or in trouble. A debtor is always running away from creditors, and someone with footwear can walk fast or tread on rough ground where you might not be able to keep up. It is used as a metaphor to advise staying away from people who are either fleeing their responsibilities or have an advantage that might lead you into difficult situations.
వెంట్రుకలున్నమ్మ ఏ కొప్పు అయినా పెడుతుంది
ventrukalunnamma e koppu ayina pedutundi
A woman with plenty of hair can style it into any bun.
This proverb signifies that a person who possesses the necessary resources, wealth, or talent has the freedom to choose any method or style to achieve their goals. It is used to describe how having a strong foundation or abundance makes any task or presentation easier.
పేదవాడి పెళ్ళాం ఊరికంతా వదిన
pedavadi pellam urikanta vadina
A poor man's wife is a sister-in-law to the whole village.
This proverb highlights how people tend to take liberties with those who lack social or financial standing. Just as a 'Vadina' (sister-in-law) is someone one can joke with or command in a traditional family, a poor person's family is often treated with a lack of respect or boundaries by everyone in society because they lack the power to protest.
వేడినీళ్ళకు ముందు, వెట్టిమూటకు వెనుక పోకూడదు.
vedinillaku mundu, vettimutaku venuka pokudadu.
Do not go in front of hot water, and do not go behind a bundle of unpaid labor.
This proverb advises caution and strategic positioning. Walking in front of someone carrying hot water risks getting splashed if they trip. Walking behind someone carrying a heavy load (vetty) is dangerous because the load might fall backward or the person might suddenly drop it. It teaches one to stay alert to their surroundings and avoid positions where others' accidents can cause them harm.
వెంట పోయినా వెనుక పోరాదు
venta poyina venuka poradu
Even if you go along with someone, do not walk behind them.
This proverb suggests that it is better to walk beside someone as an equal or companion rather than following them like a servant or subordinate. It emphasizes self-respect and warns against putting oneself in a position where one might be ignored or treated with less importance while traveling or working together.
మరులున్నవాడే మగడు
marulunnavade magadu
Only the man who has deep affection/infatuation is a true husband.
This proverb emphasizes that a man's worth as a husband is defined by the love, care, and attraction he shows toward his wife, rather than just his title or authority. It is used to suggest that emotional devotion is the hallmark of a good spouse.
బర్రె దూడ వద్దా, పాత అప్పుల వాడి వద్దా ఉండరాదు.
barre duda vadda, pata appula vadi vadda undaradu.
You should not stay near a young buffalo, or an old creditor.
This proverb warns about potential dangers or troubles. Standing near a buffalo's calf is dangerous because the mother buffalo may attack to protect it. Similarly, being near an old creditor is risky as they will inevitably demand their money back, causing social embarrassment or financial pressure. It advises staying away from situations that trigger trouble.
చెప్పులు ఉన్నవాడితోను, అప్పులు ఉన్నవాడితోను పోరాదు
cheppulu unnavaditonu, appulu unnavaditonu poradu
Do not fight with a person wearing footwear or a person who is in debt.
This proverb advises caution when picking fights. A person with footwear has a physical advantage in a scuffle, while a person in heavy debt has nothing left to lose and may act desperately or recklessly. It serves as a warning to consider the opponent's situation before engaging in conflict.
పిల్లలున్నవారికీ, పన్నులున్న వాడికీ సిగ్గుండరాదు
pillalunnavariki, pannulunna vadiki siggundaradu
Those with children and those with debts should not have shame.
This proverb suggests that people in certain responsibilities must set aside their pride or hesitation to get things done. Parents often have to ask for help or behave in ways they normally wouldn't for the sake of their children, and debtors must be humble and persistent while working to clear their obligations.