చుట్టమై చూడవస్తే దయ్యమై పట్టుకున్నట్టు
chuttamai chudavaste dayyamai pattukunnattu
When someone comes to visit as a relative but stays back and haunts like a ghost.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where a guest or a person who initially came to help or visit ends up overstaying their welcome or becomes a major nuisance and burden that is hard to get rid of.
Related Phrases
దేవుడి పట్టుకంటే దయ్యపు పట్టు ఎక్కువ
devudi pattukante dayyapu pattu ekkuva
The grip of a ghost is stronger than the grip of God
This expression is used to describe a situation where evil influences, bad habits, or negative forces seem to have a more persistent and stubborn hold on a person or a situation than positive ones. It highlights how difficult it is to get rid of something harmful once it takes hold.
పేగు చుట్టమా, పెట్టు చుట్టమా?
pegu chuttama, pettu chuttama?
Is he a blood relation, or a dinner relation ?
This proverb is used to question the nature of a relationship. It asks whether a person is a genuine blood relative (pegu chuttam) who cares out of love, or a 'fair-weather friend' (pettu chuttam) who is only around for financial gain, gifts, or personal benefit. It is often used when someone shows sudden interest in a person's life only when they become wealthy or influential.
A table friend is changeable. (French.)‡ * Vache de loin a lait asses. † Geluk en glas brekt even ras. ‡ Ami de table est variable.
దేవుడని మొక్కితే దయ్యమై పట్టుకున్నట్టు
devudani mokkite dayyamai pattukunnattu
Like praying to someone as a God, only for them to possess you like a ghost.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone seeks help or protection from a person or entity, but instead of receiving help, that person becomes a source of trouble or harassment. It reflects the irony of a perceived savior becoming a tormentor.
కులం కాదు తలం కాదు, కురవోళ్ళ పిల్ల దయ్యమై పట్టిందట
kulam kadu talam kadu, kuravolla pilla dayyamai pattindata
Neither the caste nor the place matters, they say a shepherd girl has possessed him as a ghost.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is obsessed or fixated on something irrelevant or unexpected, despite there being no logical connection or prior history. It often highlights how problems or infatuations can arise from unexpected quarters, regardless of one's status or background.
చుట్టమై చూడవస్తే, దెయ్యమై పట్టుకున్నాడట
chuttamai chudavaste, deyyamai pattukunnadata
He came to visit as a relative but stayed back like a ghost.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone who was initially invited or welcomed as a guest ends up becoming a long-term burden or a persistent nuisance that one cannot get rid of. It highlights the irony of a pleasant visit turning into an unwanted, haunting presence.
చుట్టం కదా అని చూడబోతే దయ్యమై పట్టుకుందట
chuttam kada ani chudabote dayyamai pattukundata
When visited thinking they were a relative, they caught hold like a ghost.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where you approach someone out of kindness, goodwill, or a sense of relationship, but they end up becoming a source of trouble, harassment, or a burden. It signifies that a person you expected help or comfort from turned out to be toxic or problematic.
చుట్టమని చూడవస్తే ఇల్లాంతా దయ్యాలై పట్టుకొన్నారట
chuttamani chudavaste illanta dayyalai pattukonnarata
When someone came to visit as a relative, the whole house turned into ghosts and caught them.
This proverb describes a situation where someone approaches another person with a friendly or helpful intention, only to be met with hostility or overwhelmed by the problems and demands of the person they tried to help. It is used when a kind gesture results in unexpected trouble or when people take undue advantage of a guest's presence.
దేవుడని మొక్కితే, దయ్యమై పట్టుకొన్నట్లు
devudani mokkite, dayyamai pattukonnatlu
Like praying to a deity, only for it to possess you like a ghost.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone seeks help or protection from a person or entity, but instead of receiving help, that very person or entity becomes a source of trouble or misery. It is similar to the concept of a 'blessing becoming a curse' or a savior turning into an oppressor.
చుట్టంగా వచ్చి దయ్యమై పట్టుకొన్నాడట
chuttanga vachchi dayyamai pattukonnadata
He came as a relative and caught hold like a ghost.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone enters your life as a friend or guest but ends up becoming a major nuisance, burden, or an inescapable problem that is difficult to get rid of.
చుట్టమని చూడవస్తే, యింటివారంతా దయ్యాలై పట్టుకొన్నారట
chuttamani chudavaste, yintivaranta dayyalai pattukonnarata
When he paid a visit to his relations, they all caught hold of him like devils. To get something out of him.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone goes to help or visit someone with good intentions, but ends up being treated poorly or harassed by everyone there. It highlights a complete lack of hospitality or a situation that turned unexpectedly hostile.