దిబ్బాలమ్మకి దీపం పెడితే, పందిమొగుడు వచ్చి పడదోసి పోయె.

dibbalammaki dipam pedite, pandimogudu vachchi padadosi poye.

Translation

When a lamp was lit for the goddess Dibbalamma, a pig-husband came and knocked it over.

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a situation where an effort made with good intentions or a small act of devotion is immediately ruined by someone uncouth, clumsy, or undeserving. It highlights how the actions of a crude person can spoil a delicate or sacred task.

Related Phrases

Like returning to see a household that one once built and left.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone who was previously in charge or responsible for a task returns merely as a visitor or observer, often with a sense of nostalgia or to see how things are being managed in their absence. It highlights the transition from a role of active responsibility to one of a detached onlooker.

When lime was applied to improve the color, it resulted in a lump for the mother.

This proverb describes a situation where an attempt to improve something or make it beautiful actually ruins it or makes it worse. It is used when a well-intentioned action results in a complete mess or a loss of original value.

When Dibbadu hit Abbadi on the head, Subbadu hit Dibbadu on the head.

This expression refers to a chain of retribution or a cycle of actions where one person's aggression towards someone weaker is met with similar treatment from someone stronger. It is used to describe situations where a bully gets a taste of their own medicine or to illustrate that there is always someone more powerful who can serve justice or karma.

When a laborer built a pavilion, it is said that sparrows came and knocked it down.

This proverb is used to mock someone's incompetence or the extreme fragility of their work. It describes a situation where a task is performed so poorly that even the slightest, most insignificant force (like a sparrow) is enough to destroy it.

When a repulsive person opened a shop, the incoming customers turned back immediately.

This proverb is used to describe how a person's unpleasant attitude, appearance, or behavior can drive away opportunities or success. It emphasizes that a positive presentation and welcoming nature are essential for business or social interactions, as a negative personality can repel even those who intended to help or support.

As if a face like the moon arrived and immediately caused a sunstroke.

This expression is used to describe a situation where something that appeared beautiful or promising at first glance unexpectedly resulted in a harsh or painful experience immediately upon arrival. It highlights the irony of a pleasant presence causing sudden distress.

Like placing a small oil lamp before a flaming torch.

This expression is used to describe a situation where something small, insignificant, or inferior is compared to or placed in front of something vastly superior and brilliant. It highlights how the smaller object's light is completely overshadowed and made redundant by the larger one's brilliance.

The woman of the house is the lamp of the home.

This expression highlights the importance of a woman (wife/mother) in maintaining the harmony, prosperity, and happiness of a family. Just as a lamp dispels darkness, a virtuous woman is seen as the light that guides and sustains the household.

By Diwali, the cold is as small as a lamp's flame.

This expression describes the seasonal transition in the Telugu states. It signifies that by the time of the Diwali festival, the winter season is just beginning to set in, and the cold is mild or minimal, metaphorically compared to the small heat or size of a lamp's flicker.

When Dibbadu hit Abbadi's head, Subbadu hit Dibbadu's head.

This expression describes a chain reaction of consequences or a cycle of karma. It is used to convey that if someone bullies or harms a weaker person, there is always someone stronger or more powerful who will eventually do the same to them. It highlights the idea of 'tit for tat' and that everyone is accountable to someone else.