వేయువాడుంటే అమ్మేమిచేయు

veyuvadunte ammemicheyu

Translation

If there is someone to throw (it away), what can the mother do?

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone is determined to waste or squander resources despite the best efforts of a caretaker or provider to save them. It highlights that if a person is intent on destruction or negligence, no amount of protective effort from others (symbolized by the mother) can stop the loss.

Related Phrases

What does a licking dog care about the Lingam or the Panavattam?

This expression is used to describe a person who lacks decency, respect, or a sense of sanctity. Just as a dog would lick anything without regard for its religious significance (the Shiva Lingam or its base, the Panavattam), a person without shame or character will act inappropriately regardless of the situation or the importance of the objects/people involved.

What can a husband do to a stubborn woman? What can a king do to a woman who has gone to the public square?

This proverb highlights the limitations of authority when dealing with shamelessness or extreme defiance. It means that if a person becomes utterly stubborn or discards their reputation by taking a private matter to the public (causing a scene), even those in power (like a husband in a traditional household or a king in a state) cannot control or reform them. It is used to describe situations where someone is beyond the reach of social norms or discipline.

What good is there in money ? what purity is there in man ?

This expression highlights that material possessions or money are secondary to a person's character, integrity, and sanctity. It is used to emphasize that human values and the quality of an individual's soul are far more important than their financial status.

Turning Elli into Malli and Malli into Elli

This expression describes the act of causing total confusion or manipulating facts to make things unrecognizable. It is used when someone twists the truth, swaps identities, or complicates a simple situation to the point where the original context is lost. Often used to describe cunning or deceptive behavior.

One who simply sings hymns is not necessarily a devotee.

This expression is used to highlight that true devotion or loyalty lies in one's character and actions, rather than outward displays, rituals, or constant flattery. In modern contexts, it is often used to criticize sycophants or 'yes-men' who praise superiors purely for personal gain rather than out of genuine respect.

She who has used paramours, and she who has eaten the skim of boiled milk will never cease to do so. Once an use, and ever a custom.

This proverb suggests that once someone gets habituated to certain luxuries, pleasures, or vices, it is impossible for them to give them up or remain indifferent. It is used to describe people who are enslaved by their past habits or secret desires.

What can a cage do after the parrot has flown away?

This expression is a philosophical metaphor for the relationship between the soul and the body. Just as an empty cage loses its purpose and beauty once the parrot leaves, a physical body becomes a lifeless vessel once the soul departs. It is often used to highlight the transience of life or to express the futility of holding onto something that has lost its essence.

There is a 'come mother' but no 'go mother'.

This expression refers to the hospitality or nature of a situation where welcoming someone is easy and common, but bid farewell or seeing them off is not practiced or is difficult. It is often used to describe places or situations (like a debt, a trouble, or an overstaying guest) where it is easy to enter or get involved, but very hard to leave or get out of.

A mother who has tasted cream and a mother who has become addicted to paramours will not remain quiet.

This proverb uses a blunt analogy to describe how once a person develops a taste for illicit pleasures or luxurious indulgences, they find it impossible to give them up. It is used to remark on people who cannot break bad habits or those who have become accustomed to a certain standard of luxury/graft and will continue to seek it out persistently.

A person suffering from a disease thinks of God.

This proverb describes how people often only remember or turn to spiritual faith and God when they are in distress, suffering, or facing health crises. It is used to highlight the human tendency to seek divine help during hard times while neglecting it during prosperity.