గొడారివాని వద్ద తోలు కొన్నట్టు

godarivani vadda tolu konnattu

Translation

Like buying leather from a shoemaker. Purchasing at unreasonable prices. The shoemaker buys his leather to make up, not to retail to others.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is overly cautious or suspicious about getting a fair deal. Historically, a cobbler (godari) would know every flaw in the leather, so a customer would be extra wary of being cheated or given inferior scraps. It signifies dealing with an expert in a way that involves extreme scrutiny or hesitation.

Related Phrases

To a man who wears sandals the whole earth seems to be covered with leather. A man in comfortable circumstances does not realize the wants of others,

This proverb describes a subjective perspective where a person's individual comfort or protection makes them oblivious to the hardships of others. It is used to point out that when someone is well-settled or privileged, they often assume that everyone else is also in the same secure position, or they perceive the world only through the lens of their own narrow experiences.

He dug and threw [the earth] on his own head.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone creates a problem for themselves or invites trouble through their own unnecessary actions. It signifies self-inflicted harm or a blunder that results in one's own downfall.

To a person wearing sandals, the whole world appears to be covered in leather.

This proverb illustrates how a person's perspective is shaped by their own comforts or situation. Just as someone wearing shoes doesn't feel the thorns or heat of the ground, a person who is well-protected or privileged may mistakenly believe that the entire world is safe and comfortable, failing to recognize the hardships others face.

His wife is like a tumbler's (acrobat's) drum.

This proverb is used to describe a woman who is frequently scolded, beaten, or subjected to harsh treatment by everyone in the household, much like an acrobat's drum which is beaten on both sides by anyone and everyone. It highlights a state of being constantly abused or handled roughly.

Like having leather at a cobbler's place.

This expression describes a situation where something is available in abundance but is often in a state of disorder or not put to proper use for oneself. It refers to a person who has plenty of resources related to their profession but lacks the finished product for their own personal use, or more generally, someone who possesses resources but cannot manage them effectively.

Like buying leather from a cobbler

This expression is used to describe a situation where one attempts to get something from someone who is already in dire need of it themselves, or when one expects a bargain from a person who barely has enough resources to survive. It highlights the irony or futility of seeking a specific resource from a source that is its primary consumer or is impoverished.

Lame horses and leather swords

This expression is used to describe a situation where the resources or tools available are completely ineffective or useless for the task at hand. Just as a lame horse cannot run and a leather sword cannot cut, it refers to having incompetent help or inadequate equipment.

When the owner cried for the cow [he had lost,] the shoe- maker cried for the hide.

This proverb describes a situation where one person is mourning a great loss while another person is only interested in how they can selfishly profit from that tragedy. It highlights the contrast between genuine grief and cold-hearted opportunism.

It is an ill wind that blows nobody good.

When asked which way, saying 'Godavari' way.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone gives an irrelevant or nonsensical answer to a specific question, or when there is a complete lack of communication/understanding between two people. It highlights a disconnect where the response has nothing to do with the query.

Buying a Taddinam. Bringing difficulties upon one's own head.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily invites trouble or creates a headache for themselves by their own actions or choices. It is similar to the English expression 'to go looking for trouble' or 'asking for it.'

* Alterâ manu scabunt, altera ferunt.