ఒకడిని చూస్తే పెట్టబుద్ది, ఇంకొకడిని చూస్తే మొట్టబుద్ది
okadini chuste pettabuddi, inkokadini chuste mottabuddi
Seeing one person makes you want to give, seeing another makes you want to hit
This proverb describes how different people's behavior or character evokes different reactions. One person's kindness or need inspires generosity, while another person's arrogance or annoyance provokes irritation and the urge to scold or strike them.
Related Phrases
మెత్తనివాణ్ణి చూస్తే మొత్తబుద్ధి అవుతుంది
mettanivanni chuste mottabuddhi avutundi
Seeing a soft person makes one want to strike them
This expression refers to the human tendency to take advantage of or bully those who are gentle, submissive, or overly kind. It is used to describe situations where someone's politeness is mistaken for weakness, leading others to exploit them.
మొగబుద్ధి మోటుబుద్ది, ఆడుబుద్ది అపరబుద్ధి.
mogabuddhi motubuddi, adubuddi aparabuddhi.
A man's mind is a blunt mind, a woman's mind is a subtle/sharp mind.
This proverb contrasts the psychological natures of men and women. It suggests that men tend to be more straightforward, rough, or simple-minded (motu), whereas women possess a more complex, strategic, or far-reaching intelligence (apara buddhi). It is often used to comment on how women can see through situations or plan more effectively than men.
మెత్తనివాడిని చూస్తే మొత్తబుద్ధి వేసినట్లు
mettanivadini chuste mottabuddhi vesinatlu
Upon seeing a soft-natured person, one feels like hitting them.
This proverb describes the human tendency to exploit or take advantage of those who are mild-mannered, gentle, or submissive. It suggests that people often bully or dominate those who do not resist or stand up for themselves.
ఒకణ్ణి చూస్తే పెట్టబుద్ది, ఇంకొకణ్ణి చూస్తే మొట్టబుద్ది
okanni chuste pettabuddi, inkokanni chuste mottabuddi
Looking at one person makes you want to give, looking at another makes you want to hit.
This expression describes how human behavior and generosity are often reactive to a person's character or attitude. It implies that some people naturally evoke kindness and charity, while others, due to their behavior or nature, provoke irritation or anger.
మొగుడిని చూస్తే పైత్యం, ముండను చూస్తే ముచ్చట.
mogudini chuste paityam, mundanu chuste muchchata.
Looking at the husband causes irritation, but looking at a widow (mistress) brings delight.
This proverb is used to describe a person who dislikes or finds fault with their own family or legitimate responsibilities but shows great enthusiasm and affection for outsiders or improper things. It highlights misplaced priorities and hypocrisy in one's behavior.
ఆడబోతే చూడబుద్ది, చూడబోతే ఆడబుద్ది
adabote chudabuddi, chudabote adabuddi
When going to play, one feels like watching; when going to watch, one feels like playing.
This expression describes a state of indecision or fickle-mindedness. It refers to a person who is never satisfied with their current choice and constantly wishes they were doing the opposite of what they are presently engaged in.
పెండ్లిని చూస్తూ ఒకడుంటే, పెండ్లాన్ని చూస్తూ ఒకడున్నాడు.
pendlini chustu okadunte, pendlanni chustu okadunnadu.
While one is looking at the wedding ceremony, another is looking at the bride.
This proverb highlights how different people have different priorities or intentions in the same situation. While one person may be focused on the event or the process (the wedding), another may be focused on personal gain or a specific attraction (the wife). It is used to describe situations where people's motives are not aligned despite being in the same environment.
మొగబుద్ది మోటుబుద్ది, ఆడబుద్ది అవరబుద్ధి
mogabuddi motubuddi, adabuddi avarabuddhi
Man's intellect is crude, woman's intellect is subtle/deeper.
This proverb highlights a traditional observation about gendered thinking styles. It suggests that men tend to have a blunt or straightforward approach (motu), whereas women possess a more refined, intricate, or farsighted perspective (avara). It is used to contrast the simplicity of a man's logic with the complexity and depth of a woman's intuition.
దొంగకు దొంగబుద్ది, దొరకు దొరబుద్ది.
dongaku dongabuddi, doraku dorabuddi.
A thief has a thief's mentality, a gentleman has a gentleman's mentality.
This proverb states that a person's character and actions are determined by their innate nature or social standing. It is used to explain that individuals will consistently act according to their established traits or upbringing, whether those are dishonest or noble.
రాజు చూచిన కంట మొగుణ్ని చూస్తే మొట్టబుద్ధి అయినది
raju chuchina kanta mogunni chuste mottabuddhi ayinadi
When she looked at her husband with the eye which had beheld the king, she had a mind to thump him.
This proverb describes a situation where a person, after witnessing someone of great power, beauty, or wealth, starts to find their own humble circumstances or partner inferior. It is used to caution against comparing one's own blessings with extraordinary exceptions, which leads to unnecessary discontentment or disdain for what one already has.