పప్పుకూటికి ముందు, వెట్టిమూటకు వెనక ఉండాలి

pappukutiki mundu, vettimutaku venaka undali

Translation

Be first for the dal meal and last for the forced labor bundle.

Meaning

This proverb highlights human nature regarding self-interest and survival. It suggests that one should be quick to participate in rewarding or beneficial situations (like a meal) but should be slow or hesitant to volunteer for difficult, unpaid, or heavy manual labor (vetti).

Related Phrases

A well in front, a pit behind

This expression is used to describe a dilemma or a 'catch-22' situation where one is trapped between two equally difficult or dangerous alternatives. It is the Telugu equivalent of the English idiom 'between a rock and a hard place.'

One should not be first for a bath or last for a reward.

This proverb advises on social etiquette and common sense. Being the first to bathe (in a public or shared ritual setting) might mean dealing with cold water or unpreparedness, while being last for a 'Sambhavana' (a traditional monetary gift or honorarium) might mean the funds or gifts run out before your turn. It is often used to suggest that one should time their actions wisely to avoid inconvenience or loss.

A stab in the front, a kick from the back.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a person is facing troubles or attacks from all directions simultaneously. It highlights a state of being trapped or victimized by multiple sources of misfortune or betrayal at once.

One should go early for forced labor loads and for communal row dining.

This proverb highlights a practical, if cynical, wisdom regarding social obligations and survival. In the olden days, 'vetti' (forced labor) required people to carry heavy loads; being first allowed one to pick the lightest load. In 'pankthi bhojanam' (communal dining in rows), arriving early ensured a good spot and that food wouldn't run out. It is used to advise someone to be proactive and punctual to secure the best possible outcome in both difficult tasks and rewarding opportunities.

First for food, last for work.

This expression is used to describe a lazy person who is always eager and the first to arrive when it's time to eat, but avoids responsibility or lags behind when there is work to be done. It highlights a lack of work ethic and selfishness.

Look before you drink, and look behind after you write.

This proverb advises caution and foresight in two different contexts. In the physical sense, one should check water/liquid before drinking to ensure it is clean. In the context of writing or documentation, one must 'look behind' or review what has been written to check for errors or unintended consequences before finalizing it.

If you go forward, she is a dirty woman; if you go backward, she is a mad woman.

This proverb is used to describe a 'catch-22' or a 'no-win' situation where every available option leads to a negative or unpleasant outcome. It is similar to the English expressions 'between a rock and a hard place' or 'between the devil and the deep blue sea.'

They say one should travel even ten amadas (distance) for a meal with dal.

This proverb highlights the high value placed on 'Pappu' (dal/lentils) in Telugu culture. It suggests that a simple, nutritious, and satisfying meal is worth any amount of effort or travel. It is used to describe something so desirable or beneficial that the distance or struggle to obtain it becomes irrelevant.

Do not go in front of hot water, and do not go behind a bundle of unpaid labor.

This proverb advises caution and strategic positioning. Walking in front of someone carrying hot water risks getting splashed if they trip. Walking behind someone carrying a heavy load (vetty) is dangerous because the load might fall backward or the person might suddenly drop it. It teaches one to stay alert to their surroundings and avoid positions where others' accidents can cause them harm.

One should be at the front for drinking, and at the back for writing.

This proverb highlights human nature regarding pleasure versus responsibility. It implies that people are usually eager and first in line when it comes to enjoying treats or drinks, but they are hesitant and stay in the background when it comes to work, documentation, or taking official responsibility.