సులక్షణాల పెళ్ళికొడుకు అనుకుంటే, అవలక్షణాలన్నీ బయటపడ్డాయట
sulakshanala pellikoduku anukunte, avalakshanalanni bayatapaddayata
When thought to be a groom of good virtues, all the bad traits were revealed.
This expression is used when someone who was initially perceived to be highly virtuous, talented, or perfect turns out to have many hidden flaws or negative qualities. It highlights the disappointment when reality contradicts a positive first impression or an idealized image.
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లచ్చ ఉంటే కోటి లక్షణాలు
lachcha unte koti lakshanalu
If you have money (Lacha), you have ten million (Koti) good qualities.
This proverb highlights the societal tendency to overlook the flaws of a wealthy person and attribute great qualities to them solely because of their riches. It implies that wealth can mask many shortcomings and command respect regardless of a person's true character.
చస్తేనేగాని బట్టిపాడి బయటపడదు
chastenegani battipadi bayatapadadu
Only when one dies, does the truth of the funeral song come out.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where the true nature, secrets, or total accomplishments of a person or a situation are only fully revealed or understood at the very end or after it is finished. It implies that certain truths remain hidden until the final conclusion.
అవలక్షణము గలవానికి అక్షతలు ఇస్తే, అవతలికి పోయి నోట్లో వేసుకున్నాడట
avalakshanamu galavaniki akshatalu iste, avataliki poyi notlo vesukunnadata
When sacred grain was given to a luckless fellow, he went away and ate it up (instead of placing it on his head). The term Avalakshana is applied to a man who bears unlucky marks on his person, or whose manners are inauspicious.
This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks basic sense, culture, or awareness of traditions. Akshatalu (sacred rice) are meant to be showered on the head for blessings, not eaten. It highlights how a foolish or ill-mannered person ruins a solemn or sacred gesture by acting out of ignorance or greed.
ధైర్యే సాహసే లక్ష్మి
dhairye sahase lakshmi
Fortune favors the brave
This expression means that wealth and prosperity (Lakshmi) reside with those who possess courage and the willingness to take risks. It is used to encourage someone to be brave in the face of challenges, suggesting that success follows those who act boldly.
లక్షణం పలుకరా పెళ్ళికొడుకా అంటే అయిరేని కుండ పదహారువక్కలు అన్నట్లు
lakshanam palukara pellikoduka ante ayireni kunda padaharuvakkalu annatlu
When the groom was asked to speak a good word, he said the sacred pot had shattered into sixteen pieces.
This expression is used to describe a person who says something highly inappropriate, ominous, or foolish at a critical or auspicious moment. It highlights the lack of common sense or tact when a positive contribution is expected.
అయ్యవారి గుర్రానికి అన్నీ అవలక్షణాలే
ayyavari gurraniki anni avalakshanale
Every single trait of the teacher's horse is a bad omen.
This expression is used to describe a person or a situation where everything is flawed or full of defects. It originated from a story where a poor teacher's horse had no redeeming qualities, and it is now applied to people who possess only negative characteristics or projects that are doomed due to multiple failures.
ఉద్యోగం పురుష లక్షణం, అది పోతే అవలక్షణం.
udyogam purusha lakshanam, adi pote avalakshanam.
Employment makes the man ; he is a luckless fellow if he lose it.
While the original proverb 'Udyogam Purusha Lakshanam' emphasizes that work/effort defines a person's character and dignity, this extended humorous or sarcastic version suggests that losing one's job or being unemployed is seen as a flaw or a social stigma. It is often used to highlight the societal pressure regarding employment and financial stability.
లక్షణం చెడితే అవలక్షణం
lakshanam chedite avalakshanam
If Lakshanam is neglected it becomes Avalakshanam.
This expression means that a small flaw or a lapse in character can turn a virtue into a vice. It is used to caution people that maintaining one's good reputation or quality requires consistency, as even a minor deviation can lead to being perceived negatively.
There is a pun here on the word Lakshanam which as a noun signifies the ' rules of classic composition,' and as an adjective ' handsome.'—Ava- lakshanam means ' ugly,' ' deformed.'
బయట పులి, ఇంట పిల్లి
bayata puli, inta pilli
A tiger outside, a cat inside
This expression describes a person who acts brave, fierce, or authoritative in public or in front of strangers, but is timid, submissive, or easily intimidated at home or in front of their family members. It is often used to mock someone's false bravado.
లక్షణాలు గల బావగారికి రాగి మీసాలు, అవలక్షణాలు గల బావగారికి అవీ లేవు.
lakshanalu gala bavagariki ragi misalu, avalakshanalu gala bavagariki avi levu.
The good looking brother-in-law has red mustaches, the ugly brother-in-law has none at all.
This proverb is a sarcastic way of describing a situation where there is no good choice available. It implies that even the 'best' option among the lot is flawed or mediocre, while the 'worst' option is completely devoid of any merit. It is used to mock someone's pretense of quality when even their best attributes are subpar.