తనకు కానిది గూడులంజ.

tanaku kanidi gudulanja.

Translation

[ He called ] the woman whom he could not get [as a wife] a harlot. Sour grapes as the fox said when he could not reach them. What you can't have, abuse, (Italian.)

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a person's lack of care, respect, or responsibility for something that doesn't belong to them. It highlights how people often neglect, misuse, or treat things poorly when they have no personal stake or ownership in them.

Notes

* Quel che non puoi aver, biasima,

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One that is not useful to oneself is a sitting widow

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Like asking to say something you don't know, I haven't heard, and doesn't exist in the world.

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