అల్లుడు వస్తే వంకర తాడు కూడా లేచి నిలుచుంటుంది

alludu vaste vankara tadu kuda lechi niluchuntundi

Translation

When the son-in-law arrives, even a crooked rope stands up straight.

Meaning

In traditional Telugu culture, the son-in-law (alludu) is treated with such extreme respect and hospitality that everyone in the household becomes hyper-vigilant and formal. This proverb uses hyperbole to describe how even inanimate objects would straighten up in his presence, signifying the pressure on the bride's family to ensure everything is perfect and orderly when he visits.

Related Phrases

As the person who did the act left, the person standing there was left with water leaking away.

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Will the hailstones that come with the rain stay forever?

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Time passes, but the word remains.

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It's better to stand and drink water, than to run and drink milk. A comfortable berth with a moderate salary, is better than a bad situation with a larger income.

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[ Like a widow saying ] " if he were alive, he would at least call the barber."

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Black reveals four curves, while red hides seven curves.

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Will the running carts stop if you stretch out your legs?

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Time will go, an accusation will remain.

This expression emphasizes the permanence and importance of keeping one's promises. While time moves forward and situations change, the words you have spoken and the commitments you have made will be remembered and will define your character long after the moment has passed.