ఆశ అరవైనాళ్ళు, మోహం ముప్పైనాళ్ళు

asha aravainallu, moham muppainallu

Translation

Desire lasts sixty days, infatuation lasts thirty days.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe the temporary nature of excitement or obsession with new things or relationships. It suggests that the initial craze (infatuation) fades quickly, while even deeper desires have a limited shelf life before they lose their intensity.

Related Phrases

Moonlight for a few days, darkness for a few days

This expression is used to signify that life is a cycle of ups and downs. Just as the lunar cycle alternates between bright moonlight and darkness, human life consists of periods of joy and sorrow, success and failure. It is used to encourage resilience during tough times or to advise humility during prosperous times.

For Ankayya, the man of lies, there are sixty-four false oaths.

This proverb is used to describe a habitual or compulsive liar. Just as Ankayya has a collection of sixty-four different ways to swear falsely, a dishonest person always has a new lie or a fake promise ready to cover up their previous ones. It highlights that for some people, swearing or taking an oath has no sanctity.

How long does the cow's milk last, so does the wealth. How long does the buffalo's milk last, so does the fortune.

This proverb is used to describe the temporary and fleeting nature of wealth and prosperity. Just as a cow or buffalo gives milk only for a certain period and then goes dry, human fortune and riches are not permanent and can disappear at any time.

Sixty years passed as the wife was unwilling, thirty years passed as the husband was unwilling, and ten years passed as childhood.

This proverb describes a wasted life or a failed relationship where time is squandered on mutual dislikes, disagreements, and hesitation. It is used to mock people who spend their entire lives complaining or avoiding responsibilities until it is too late.

The mother-in-law's time lasts for a while, and the daughter-in-law's time lasts for a while.

This proverb signifies that power and circumstances are never permanent. Just as a daughter-in-law eventually becomes the mother-in-law in charge, everyone gets their turn to lead or dominate. It is used to remind people to be humble during their time of power, as the tables will eventually turn.

A harlot's love.

This expression refers to a blind or superficial infatuation that is driven solely by physical attraction or base desires rather than genuine love or commitment. It is often used to describe a temporary, self-destructive obsession that lacks depth or long-term value.

Whether there are three hundred and sixty-four knots of hair or thirty-six small buns, it is all the same.

This expression is used to describe a situation where there is no real difference between the choices or outcomes presented, despite how they are counted or categorized. It implies that a large quantity of something disorganized or fragmented is ultimately equal to a smaller quantity of something similarly messy; basically saying 'it's all the same mess' or 'six of one, half a dozen of the other'.

Whether it is a feast or a medicine, it is for three days only.

This proverb is used to convey that both happiness (represented by a feast) and hardship (represented by taking medicine) are temporary. It suggests that any situation, good or bad, will typically lose its intensity or reach its conclusion in a short period. It is often used to advise someone not to overstay their welcome as a guest or to encourage someone enduring a difficult phase that it will soon pass.

Darkness for some days, moonlight for some days.

This proverb signifies the cyclical nature of life, suggesting that both bad times (darkness) and good times (moonlight) are temporary. It is used to offer comfort during hardships or as a reminder to stay humble during success, as neither phase lasts forever.

Joy and sorrow are equally divided.

How long will the Úda food last? How long will your em- ployment continue?

This proverb is used to describe the insecurity and temporary nature of a job or a livelihood. It suggests that just as puffed rice (which is light and fills the mouth but not the stomach for long) doesn't sustain a person for long, some jobs are also transient and lack permanence or long-term security.