చస్తే ఒక ఏడుపు, బతికితే బతుకంతా ఏడుపు
chaste oka edupu, batikite batukanta edupu
If one dies, there is one cry; if one lives, there is crying for a lifetime.
This proverb describes a situation where life is so filled with continuous suffering, misery, or struggle that death is seen as a singular moment of grief for others, whereas living is an endless cycle of pain for the individual. It is used to highlight extreme hardship or a state of perpetual sorrow.
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బతుకంత భాగ్యం లేదు
batukanta bhagyam ledu
There is no fortune greater than being alive.
This expression emphasizes that life itself is the greatest wealth one can possess. It is used to provide perspective during financial loss or hardship, suggesting that as long as one is alive and healthy, they have the opportunity to rebuild and succeed.
ఆలికి అదుపు ఇంటికి పొదుపు
aliki adupu intiki podupu
Discipline for the wife and frugality for the home.
This traditional proverb suggests that a well-managed household depends on two main pillars: a disciplined or well-behaved spouse who maintains order, and the practice of saving money or being thrifty. It is used to emphasize the importance of self-control and financial management in achieving domestic harmony and prosperity.
బతికితే భూదానం, చస్తే గోదానం
batikite bhudanam, chaste godanam
Land donation if one lives, cow donation if one dies.
This proverb refers to someone who is in a critical, life-threatening situation where they are making desperate promises or sacrifices regardless of the outcome. It is often used to describe a 'win-win' situation for a priest or a middleman who benefits from a person's rituals whether they survive (through land offerings) or pass away (through cow offerings for the soul's journey).
ఏడుపులో ఏడుపు ఎడమ చెయ్యి బయట పెట్టుమన్నట్టు.
edupulo edupu edama cheyyi bayata pettumannattu.
Show your [ withered ] left hand and add to their grief. The story is that after a marriage the bridegroom was found to be a fool, which caused much regret to the family of the bride. The bride- groom's friends then told him to show the withered state of his left hand which he had hitherto concealed. Making bad matters worse.
This proverb describes a situation where someone adds a trivial or irrelevant task/request to a person who is already in deep distress or overwhelmed by a significant problem. It is used when a person lacks empathy and makes an untimely request during a crisis.
బతికితే అతిసారం, చస్తే కలరా
batikite atisaram, chaste kalara
If one survives, it is diarrhea; if one dies, it is cholera.
This expression is used to describe a 'no-win' or 'lose-lose' situation where both possible outcomes are negative or undesirable. It highlights a predicament where the choice is between a minor ailment and a fatal one, implying that there is no truly good option available.
వెంట్రుక కన్నా ఏడుపాళ్ళు సన్నం, రోకలి కన్నా ఏడుపాళ్ళు లావు
ventruka kanna edupallu sannam, rokali kanna edupallu lavu
Seven times thinner than a hair, seven times thicker than a pestle.
This expression is used to describe something that is highly unpredictable, inconsistent, or extremely versatile in nature. It refers to situations or entities that can fluctuate between extremes—being incredibly delicate or subtle at one moment and heavy or blunt the next. It is often used to describe the complexities of human nature or the unpredictable twists of fate.
కోతలు ఉన్నన్నాళ్ళు కోతీ బతికింది, తరువాత బతికిందే బతుకు
kotalu unnannallu koti batikindi, taruvata batikinde batuku
As long as there were harvests, the monkey survived; life after that is the real struggle.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone enjoys a comfortable life due to favorable external circumstances or resources. When those resources are exhausted, they face the harsh reality of survival. It serves as a reminder that true resilience is tested only when easy times end.
అరవ యేడుపు
arava yedupu
Like a Tamil mourning. Among the Tamilians, women are sometimes hired to mourn over a deceased person. Applied to an unwilling performance of any duty.
This expression is used to describe excessive, loud, or dramatic wailing that often seems exaggerated or insincere. It refers to a noisy, boisterous way of expressing grief or complaining, typically used in a derogatory or mocking sense to tell someone to stop making a scene.
ఎదురు తిరిగిన కుక్క ఏదుపంది ఒకటి
eduru tirigina kukka edupandi okati
A dog that turns against you and a porcupine are the same.
This expression is used to describe a person who suddenly turns hostile or betrays someone they were previously loyal to. Just as a porcupine is dangerous to touch, a formerly loyal person who turns against you becomes an extremely difficult and prickly enemy to handle.
బతికిన బతుక్కు ఒక పంది సాకుడా?
batikina batukku oka pandi sakuda?
For the life lived, is it necessary to rear a pig?
This expression is used to criticize someone who, despite having lived a respectable or decent life, stoops to low, undignified, or petty behavior. It is often used to question why someone would tarnish their reputation or standard of living by engaging in something considered base or beneath them.