అరవ యేడుపు

arava yedupu

Translation

Like a Tamil mourning. Among the Tamilians, women are sometimes hired to mourn over a deceased person. Applied to an unwilling performance of any duty.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe excessive, loud, or dramatic wailing that often seems exaggerated or insincere. It refers to a noisy, boisterous way of expressing grief or complaining, typically used in a derogatory or mocking sense to tell someone to stop making a scene.

Related Phrases

Although it is an earthen one, yet my ox will beat [the real ox].

This proverb describes a person's extreme stubbornness or irrational bias. It is used to mock someone who refuses to accept defeat or admit they are wrong, insisting that their side must prevail even when it is clearly inferior or incapable.

Excessive obstinacy.

If one dies, there is one cry; if one lives, there is crying for a lifetime.

This proverb describes a situation where life is so filled with continuous suffering, misery, or struggle that death is seen as a singular moment of grief for others, whereas living is an endless cycle of pain for the individual. It is used to highlight extreme hardship or a state of perpetual sorrow.

Discipline for the wife and frugality for the home.

This traditional proverb suggests that a well-managed household depends on two main pillars: a disciplined or well-behaved spouse who maintains order, and the practice of saving money or being thrifty. It is used to emphasize the importance of self-control and financial management in achieving domestic harmony and prosperity.

Show your [ withered ] left hand and add to their grief. The story is that after a marriage the bridegroom was found to be a fool, which caused much regret to the family of the bride. The bride- groom's friends then told him to show the withered state of his left hand which he had hitherto concealed. Making bad matters worse.

This proverb describes a situation where someone adds a trivial or irrelevant task/request to a person who is already in deep distress or overwhelmed by a significant problem. It is used when a person lacks empathy and makes an untimely request during a crisis.

Like a bag of money in a looking glass. Visionary prospects.

This expression refers to something that is visible but unattainable, or a promise that is illusory. Just as one can see the image of an offering or money in a mirror but cannot actually touch or spend it, it describes wealth or benefits that exist only on paper or in theory but cannot be used in reality.

One said " Where's the ladle ?" the other said " Where's the stick ?" Two lazy fellows.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone gives an irrelevant, evasive, or overly literal answer to a specific question. It highlights a lack of common sense or a deliberate attempt to avoid addressing the actual point by shifting the focus to the basic material or a different subject altogether.

However much the rat may cry, the cat will not let go her hold.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a powerful person or an oppressor remains indifferent to the pleas, suffering, or tears of the weak. It suggests that once someone has a decisive advantage or control over another, they are unlikely to show mercy just because the victim is lamenting their fate.

As the child grows, the pot grows. i. e. It eats more. A growing youth has a wolf in his belly.

This proverb refers to the increasing needs and expenses that come with growth. Just as a growing child requires more food, necessitating a larger cooking pot, any expanding project, family, or business will naturally demand more resources and higher maintenance.

Poverty is the sixth sense.

This expression suggests that poverty influences a person's perception and behavior so profoundly that it acts like an additional sense. It implies that being poor makes one hyper-aware of survival, limitations, and the harsh realities of life that others might not perceive.

Unnecessary or unpaid hard labor

This expression refers to performing excessive, strenuous work without getting any recognition, proper compensation, or productive result. It is often used to describe drudgery or a thankless job where the effort put in is far greater than the value received.