డబ్బులేనివాడికి బోగముది తల్లి వరుస
dabbulenivadiki bogamudi talli varusa
To a man with no money, a courtesan is like a mother.
This proverb is used to highlight how poverty changes one's perspective or how people treat those who cannot afford their services. In a literal sense, it implies that a person without wealth cannot pursue luxury or indulgence, as they are treated with the same distance or respect as a maternal figure by those who sell such services, simply because there is no transaction possible.
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గొడ్డులేనివాడు బిడ్డలేనివాడు ఒకటి.
goddulenivadu biddalenivadu okati.
A person without cattle and a person without children are the same.
In traditional agrarian societies, cattle were considered as vital as family members for one's livelihood and legacy. This expression highlights the essential role of livestock in prosperity, implying that lacking them is as significant a loss as not having heirs to carry on the family name or support the household.
ఊరికి ఒక భోగం అది, ఎవరి వద్ద ఆడును?
uriki oka bhogam adi, evari vadda adunu?
There is but one dancing girl in the village; before whom is she to dance ?
This proverb describes a situation where there is a single resource or individual available to serve many people, leading to a conflict of interest or impossibility of satisfying everyone simultaneously. It is used when one person is pulled in many different directions or when limited resources are expected to meet excessive demands.
దబ్బులేనివాడు డబ్బుకు కొరగాడు
dabbulenivadu dabbuku koragadu
A person without courage is of no use even with money.
This proverb highlights that courage and self-confidence are more valuable than material wealth. It is used to describe a situation where a person, despite having financial resources, cannot achieve anything or defend themselves because they lack the necessary boldness or character.
లేనివాడు పుడమి లేనివాడు.
lenivadu pudami lenivadu.
One who has not is as one who is not in the world. i. e. A penniless man has nothing in the world.
This proverb highlights the harsh reality of social status and poverty. It suggests that a person without wealth or resources is often treated as if they have no place or belonging in the world, emphasizing how society values individuals based on their possessions.
ఊరికంతా ఒక బోగముదైతే, ఆ బోగముది ఎవరి వద్ద ఆడును?
urikanta oka bogamudaite, a bogamudi evari vadda adunu?
If there is only one dancer for the whole village, before whom will she perform?
This proverb is used to describe a situation where a single resource, person, or service is shared by too many people, leading to conflict or impracticality. It highlights the impossibility of satisfying everyone's demands simultaneously when supply is extremely limited.
చెల్లెలి వరుస విడిచి చేసుకోవాలి, తల్లి వరుస తప్పి చేసుకోవాలి
chelleli varusa vidichi chesukovali, talli varusa tappi chesukovali
One should marry leaving the relation of a sister and avoiding the relation of a mother.
This is a traditional Telugu proverb used to explain marriage alliances and exogamy. It signifies that one can marry a girl who doesn't fall into the category of a 'sister' (like a paternal uncle's daughter or maternal aunt's daughter) or 'mother' (certain maternal clan relations) according to cultural lineage rules. It emphasizes following social and biological protocols in matrimonial matches.
రాగము రానివాడూ, రోగము లేనివాడూ లేడు
ragamu ranivadu, rogamu lenivadu ledu
There is no one who cannot hum a tune, there is no one free from disease.
This expression suggests that everyone has some hidden talent or inclination toward music (or emotion), just as everyone has some physical or mental imperfection. It is used to highlight the commonality of human traits and the inevitability of minor flaws in every individual.
* Veritas non quaerit angulos.
ఆడలేని బోగముది మద్దెల ఓడన్నట్లు (లేదా మద్దెలపై పడి కొట్టుకున్నట్లు)
adaleni bogamudi maddela odannatlu (leda maddelapai padi kottukunnatlu)
A dancer who cannot dance blames the drum (or beats the drum).
This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks skill or fails at a task and tries to shift the blame onto their tools, circumstances, or others. It is similar to the English proverb: 'A bad workman always quarrels with his tools.'
డబ్బులేనివాడి బడాయి చేతగాని బడాయి
dabbulenivadi badayi chetagani badayi
The boasting of a man without money is the boasting of an incompetent man.
This expression is used to mock someone who brags or talks big despite lacking the financial means or the actual capability to back up their claims. It suggests that empty boasting by someone without resources is meaningless and ineffective.
డబ్బులేని వానికి బోగముది తల్లి వరస
dabbuleni vaniki bogamudi talli varasa
A harlot is as a mother to a man without money. Something beyond the reach of a man's means.
This proverb highlights the cynical reality of materialism. It means that when a person has no money, even those who provide services for a fee (traditionally referring to courtesans) will show no romantic or sexual interest in them, treating them with the platonic distance of a relative. It is used to describe how financial status dictates social and personal relationships.