దుఃఖమును అణచుకోగలిగిన వానికంటె సంతోషాన్ని అణచుకోగలిగిన వాడే ఘనుడు.

duhkhamunu anachukogaligina vanikante santoshanni anachukogaligina vade ghanudu.

Translation

One who can suppress their joy is greater than one who can suppress their sorrow.

Meaning

While most people struggle to hide their grief, it is considered a sign of true character and maturity to remain humble and composed during times of great success or happiness without boasting. It emphasizes the importance of equanimity (Sthitapragyata).

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