ఇన్ని కంతులు కోశానుగాని, నా కంతి అంత నొప్పి మరేదీ లేదు

inni kantulu koshanugani, na kanti anta noppi maredi ledu

Translation

I have operated on many tumors, but none was as painful as my own.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe a situation where a person who helps others solve their problems or treats others' suffering finds it hardest to deal with their own personal pain or issues. It highlights that personal suffering is always felt more acutely than the professional or objective handling of others' problems.

Related Phrases

There is no light like the eye, and no support like the earth.

This proverb highlights fundamental truths of existence. It means that physical sight (the eye) is the ultimate source of enlightenment/perception for an individual, and the earth (soil) is the ultimate foundation that sustains all life. It is used to emphasize the importance of vision and the basic necessity of nature.

All of it is just a hole/gap

This expression is used to describe a situation where there is a total loss, or when something is completely hollow, empty, or useless despite appearances. It implies that everything has gone down the drain or that the entirety of a matter results in nothingness.

What is more cunning/contrary than a woman's mind?

This proverb is traditionally used to suggest that women possess a unique or unpredictable sharpness of mind, often implying they can think of unconventional or clever solutions that others might miss. It is sometimes used to describe a change of heart or a contrary way of thinking.

The priest's wife supposedly jumped around because she didn't have fenugreek seeds.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone makes a huge fuss or throws a tantrum over a very trivial or minor issue. It highlights the absurdity of reacting dramatically to the lack of something insignificant.

Like changing the pillow because you have a headache.

This proverb refers to taking a superficial or irrelevant action to solve a problem instead of addressing the root cause. Just as changing a pillow won't cure a physiological headache, changing external factors won't solve internal or fundamental issues.

Whose flesh is cut, it is they who feel the pain.

This proverb is used to emphasize that only the person who is actually experiencing a hardship or loss truly understands the pain of it. It is often said to people who offer superficial sympathy or advice without understanding the depth of another's struggle.

Happiness needs no excuse, and thoughts have no end.

This proverb suggests that one doesn't need a specific reason to be happy; it is a state of mind. Conversely, it highlights that the human mind is prone to endless worrying or overthinking, implying that while joy is spontaneous, anxiety can be a never-ending cycle if not controlled.

Pundits and such are like a quarter seer of fenugreek seeds; if you toss them up and strike, they jump seven times.

This is a humorous and mocking rhyming chant or 'sameta' used to poke fun at teachers or scholars (Pantulu). It suggests that despite their status, they can be easily rattled or made to jump around. It is often used by children or in a lighthearted, albeit disrespectful, way to diminish the authority of a teacher.

Who does not desire a woman and gold?

This expression highlights the universal human attraction towards physical beauty (desire) and material wealth (gold/money). It is often used to suggest that it is human nature to be tempted by these two elements, though it can also be used as a cautionary remark regarding the primary sources of human attachment or downfall.

I have cut many boils, but there was never such pain as in my own. Said by a Surgeon. To cut into another man's ear is like cutting into a felt hat. (Danish.) He laughs at scars who never felt a wound, (German.)

This proverb describes a hypocritical or subjective attitude where a person treats others harshly or performs painful tasks on others (like a doctor or a critic) but becomes overly sensitive or self-pitying when they face the same situation. It highlights how people often lack empathy until they experience pain themselves, or how they perceive their own suffering as unique and more significant than that of others.