ఇంట్లో ఈగల మోత, బయట సవారీల మోత

intlo igala mota, bayata savarila mota

Translation

In the house a buzzing of flies, outside the hum of palankin bearers.

Meaning

This expression describes a person or family who lives in poverty or misery at home while maintaining a false, extravagant status or show of wealth in public. It highlights the contrast between actual dire conditions and outward pretension.

Notes

Outward show, but poverty at home.

Related Phrases

Kicking [a man ] when out of doors and falling at his feet in the house. Disgracing him in public and cringing to him in private.

This expression describes a hypocritical or manipulative behavior where someone insults or harms a person in public (or treats them poorly elsewhere) and then tries to act humble or seek forgiveness in private. It refers to a person who tries to cover up their public misdeeds with private apologies or subservience.

Inwardly bad, outwardly fair.

This expression refers to hypocrisy or deception. It describes a situation or a person who appears attractive, noble, or pleasant on the outside while being corrupt, ugly, or malicious on the inside. It is equivalent to the English concept of a 'whitened sepulchre' or 'all that glitters is not gold'.

All saint without, all devil within.

The burden of an elephant, the fodder of an elephant

This expression is used to describe a situation or an asset (like a business, project, or luxury item) that yields high results or prestige but requires an equally high level of maintenance and expenditure. It signifies that big ventures come with big responsibilities and costs.

At home he is a spider, abroad he is a tiger. Demure at home, a ruffian abroad. He looks as if butter would not melt in his mouth.

This proverb describes a person who is extremely timid or submissive at home (often toward a spouse or family) but displays great courage, authority, or intimidation when dealing with the outside world. It highlights the contrast between someone's private vulnerability and their public bravado.

Is this done wantonly or with an object ?

This expression is used to describe a state of uncertainty about the outcome of a situation. It suggests that one doesn't know if a result will be positive or negative, or if a specific action will lead to success or failure. It is often used when embarking on a risky venture or waiting for a result that is out of one's hands.

Great name, but carrying sandals.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone has a high social status or a prestigious title, but in reality, they are performing menial tasks or living in poverty. It highlights the contrast between outward reputation and actual condition.

Donkeys carry the burden, horses get the feed

This proverb is used to describe an unfair situation where one person does all the hard labor (the donkey) while someone else reaps all the rewards and luxuries (the horse). It highlights exploitation or inequity in work and reward distribution.

There is no food at home, but celebrating at others' houses.

This proverb describes someone who lacks basic necessities at home or in their own life, yet pretends to be wealthy or spends their energy and resources celebrating or interfering in others' affairs. It is used to mock people who ignore their own poverty or problems while putting on a show for the public.

When one took sanyasam (renunciation) wanting to die, it turned into carrying a saddle, a quilt, and a donkey’s load.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone tries to escape their current problems or responsibilities by taking a drastic step, only to find themselves burdened with even more difficult or tedious tasks than before. It highlights that shortcuts or running away from reality often lead to more complications.

Like trying to swim in knee-deep water

This expression describes someone attempting to do something grand or complex in a situation that lacks the necessary depth or resources. It refers to an effort that is redundant, awkward, or impossible due to the restrictive environment.