కోడలా కోడలా కొడుకు కోడూరుకపోయనే, నీకు కోకెక్కడదే అంటే, అత్తా అత్తా మామ మడమనూరు పోయెనేనీకు మెట్టెలెక్కడివే అన్నదట
kodala kodala koduku kodurukapoyane, niku kokekkadade ante, atta atta mama madamanuru poyeneniku mettelekkadive annadata
When the mother-in-law asked, 'Daughter-in-law, your husband has gone to Koduru, where did you get this saree from?', the daughter-in-law replied, 'Mother-in-law, my father-in-law has gone to Madamanuru, where did you get those toe-rings from?'
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone who is guilty of a mistake or questionable behavior tries to criticize or question others for the same thing. It highlights hypocrisy and the act of 'tit-for-tat' questioning when one's own conduct is not beyond reproach.
Related Phrases
అత్తా అత్తా కొడుకును కంటానంటే, వద్దంటానా అందట
atta atta kodukunu kantanante, vaddantana andata
When a daughter-in-law asked her mother-in-law if she should give birth to a son, the mother-in-law replied, 'Would I ever say no?'
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone asks for permission or proposes something that is obviously beneficial or desirable to the listener. It highlights a rhetorical question where the answer is an emphatic 'yes' because the outcome favors everyone involved.
కోడలు కొడుకును కంటానంటే, వద్దనే అత్త ఉంటుందా?
kodalu kodukunu kantanante, vaddane atta untunda?
If a daughter-in-law says she will give birth to a son, would any mother-in-law say no?
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone offers to do something that is universally beneficial or highly desired. It implies that no one in their right mind would refuse a proposal that brings mutual profit or happiness. It is often used when a deal or suggestion is so good that acceptance is a foregone conclusion.
ఒక కన్ను కన్నూ కాదు, ఒక కొడుకు కొడుకూ కాదు
oka kannu kannu kadu, oka koduku koduku kadu
One eye is not an eye, one son is not a son.
This proverb highlights the vulnerability and risk associated with having only one of something essential. Just as losing one's only eye results in total blindness, depending on an only child (traditionally for lineage or support) is considered risky because if something happens to them, there is no backup. It is used to describe situations where a single point of failure exists.
ముండ కొడుకే కొడుకు, రాజు కొడుకే కొడుకు
munda koduke koduku, raju koduke koduku
A widow's son is a son, a king's son is a son. A king's son and a widow's son are both greatly indulged.
This proverb highlights that fate or luck favors two extremes: either those who have nothing to lose and must work extremely hard (the widow's son) or those who are born with immense privilege (the king's son). It is used to describe how people at the very bottom of the social ladder and the very top often end up being the most successful or influential, albeit for different reasons.
కోడలు కొడుకును కంటానంటే, వద్దనే అత్తగారు ఉన్నదా?
kodalu kodukunu kantanante, vaddane attagaru unnada?
When a daughter-in-law says that she is about to bring forth a son, is there any mother-in-law who says "Don't"? i. e. wish the child to be a daughter. Will any one refuse to receive a benefit?
This proverb describes a situation where someone offers to do something that is universally desired or beneficial to everyone involved. It implies that no one would refuse a proposal that results in a positive outcome for the whole group or family. It is often used when someone makes a suggestion that is too good to turn down.
కోడలా కోడలా నీ భోగం ఎన్నాళ్లే అంటే, మా అత్త మాలపల్లికి పోయొచ్చేదాకా అన్నదట.
kodala kodala ni bhogam ennalle ante, ma atta malapalliki poyochchedaka annadata.
Daughter-in-law, how long will your enjoyment last? Until my mother-in-law returns from the hamlet.
This proverb is used to describe a temporary authority or a brief period of freedom. It refers to someone who acts like a boss only because their superior or elder is momentarily away. It highlights that one's power or pleasure is transient and dependent on the absence of a higher authority.
ఒక కన్ను కన్నూ కాదు, ఒక కొడుకు కొడుకూ కాడు
oka kannu kannu kadu, oka koduku koduku kadu
One eye is no eye, one son is no son.
This proverb suggests that relying on a single resource or individual is risky. Just as losing one's only eye leads to total blindness, depending on an only child (or a single point of failure) leaves one vulnerable. It is used to emphasize the importance of backups, security, or having multiple supports in life.
కోడలు కొడుకును కంటానంటే వద్దనే అత్త ఉంటుందా?
kodalu kodukunu kantanante vaddane atta untunda?
Will there be a mother-in-law who says no if the daughter-in-law says she will give birth to a son?
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone offers to do something that is clearly beneficial or highly desired by the other person. It implies that no one would refuse a proposal that aligns perfectly with their own interests or well-being.
ఆడపలు వేసినవి అత్తా అంటే, అట్లకు బియ్యం నానబొయ్యి కోడలా అన్నదట.
adapalu vesinavi atta ante, atlaku biyyam nanaboyyi kodala annadata.
When the daughter-in-law said the clouds had gathered, the mother-in-law told her to soak rice for crepes.
This proverb describes a situation where someone misinterprets a sign of trouble or a warning as a reason for celebration or greed. When the daughter-in-law warns of dark clouds (incoming rain/storm), the mother-in-law, thinking only of tasty food, asks to prepare for snacks. It is used to mock people who lack foresight or who are disconnected from reality due to their desires.
కొడుకు మిన్న కోడలు సన్న
koduku minna kodalu sanna
The son is great, but the daughter-in-law is thin (small)
This proverb is used to describe a biased attitude where parents overlook their own son's faults or give him excessive credit while being overly critical, dismissive, or demanding toward the daughter-in-law. It highlights the unequal treatment and double standards often found in family dynamics.