కోడిని కోసి, గోత్రానికంతా పగ అయినట్లు

kodini kosi, gotranikanta paga ayinatlu

Translation

Like killing a chicken and making the whole clan enemies.

Meaning

This proverb describes a situation where someone commits a small, insignificant offense or takes a trivial gain that results in a disproportionately large amount of conflict or enmity with an entire group of people. It is used to caution against actions where the 'cost' of social backlash far outweighs the 'benefit' of the act.

Related Phrases

Like cutting the udder to drink milk

This expression refers to a short-sighted or greedy action where someone destroys a valuable source of long-term benefits for a small, immediate gain. It is similar to the English proverb 'killing the goose that lays the golden eggs.' It is used when someone's impatience or lack of foresight leads to self-inflicted loss.

Like cutting the throat after gaining trust.

This expression is used to describe a severe act of betrayal or backstabbing. It refers to a situation where someone gains another person's complete confidence and then uses that trust to cause them significant harm or ruin.

Like placing a turban in the fort

This expression is used to describe a significant achievement, a grand success, or the act of establishing one's authority or presence in a difficult-to-reach place. Historically, placing one's turban in an enemy's fort symbolized victory and conquest. In modern context, it refers to reaching a milestone or securing a strong position in a competitive field.

When offered a cat by force, he asked about its caste and lineage.

This proverb describes a situation where someone who is being given something for free (often something undesirable or unnecessary) starts acting overly picky or demanding. It is used to mock people who act entitled or fastidious when they are actually in a position of receiving an unearned favor or a desperate offer.

The sheep know the lineages of the shepherds, and the shepherds know the lineages of the sheep.

This proverb describes a relationship where two parties know each other's secrets, habits, and history intimately because they spend all their time together. It is used to suggest that one cannot hide anything from a close associate or that those who work closely together have a deep, mutual understanding of each other's affairs.

Wolves look for the lineage of sheep and the lineage of shepherds.

This proverb is used to describe predators or exploiters who wait for the right moment to strike. Just as a wolf studies the habits and backgrounds of both the sheep and the shepherds to find a weakness, cunning people observe their targets and their protectors to find an opportunity to take advantage of them. It highlights that an enemy's interest in your details is usually for malicious purposes.

If the dhoti is large, does the lineage become great?

This proverb is used to say that outward appearance, expensive clothing, or displays of wealth do not determine a person's character, family status, or nobility. Just because someone wears fancy clothes doesn't mean they possess high virtues or a respected heritage.

There will be some grumbling in a house where a chicken is being slaughtered.

This proverb implies that where there is significant activity, work, or the processing of resources, some amount of friction, complaints, or noise is inevitable. Just as cleaning a chicken creates a mess and noise before the feast, any important task involves unavoidable minor troubles or arguments.

Belonging to the 'all-sounds' lineage, and being the sons of Pullamma.

This humorous expression is used to describe people who lack a proper pedigree or distinguished background but try to sound sophisticated by using high-sounding, pseudo-Sanskrit words. It is often applied to commoners who pretend to be intellectual or elite, highlighting the contrast between their grand claims ('Sakala Shabda') and their simple, ordinary reality ('Pullamma Putrulu').

As if harvesting pigeon peas with the same hand used to harvest kodo millet.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a person moves seamlessly from one task to another, or handles a new situation with the same ease or methods as a previous one. It often implies a sense of continuity in action or temperament, typically used when someone performs a second task immediately after the first without hesitation.