కూటికియ్యని విటకాని పోటు మెండు

kutikiyyani vitakani potu mendu

Translation

A paramour who doesn't provide food shows excessive vigor.

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a person who fails to fulfill their basic responsibilities or provide essential support, yet makes grand displays of authority, aggression, or unnecessary effort in other areas. It highlights the irony of someone being useless where it matters most while acting overbearingly elsewhere.

Related Phrases

Ten million arts are only for [getting] food.

This proverb highlights that no matter how many skills, educational degrees, or talents a person possesses, the ultimate goal of all their efforts is to earn a livelihood and satisfy their basic need for food. It is used to remind people that every profession or skill has the same fundamental purpose: survival.

All professions are only so many means of livelihood.

Are there sweet diseases, and delicious medicines?

This expression is used to highlight the reality that progress, recovery, or results often require going through something difficult or unpleasant. Just as one cannot expect a disease to be pleasant or a life-saving medicine to taste like a treat, one cannot achieve success without hard work or endure correction without some discomfort.

Ten million skills are all for earning one’s livelihood.

The purpose, by and large, of acquisition of diverse special skills is only to make a living.

Those who cannot do the work talk a lot; a counterfeit coin has many scratches.

This proverb describes people who compensate for their lack of ability or skill with excessive talk and excuses. Just as a fake or invalid coin often has many marks or scratches to hide its flaws or draw attention away from its worthlessness, an incompetent person uses words to hide their inability to perform a task.

Delicious diseases, sweet medicines

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is overly pampered or spoiled. It refers to a state where even the problems (diseases) are pleasant or luxurious, and the solutions (medicines) are sweet, implying that the individual is living in such comfort that they lack any real hardship or discipline.

A customer who doesn't pay a single coin shows excessive aggression.

This proverb describes people who contribute nothing or have no real skin in the game, yet act overly demanding or authoritative. It is used to critique those who want the best results or services without paying or putting in any effort, often compensating for their lack of contribution with empty arrogance or bossiness.

Equality is necessary for marriage and for war.

This proverb emphasizes that both marital alliances and rivalries (fights) should occur between equals. In marriage, it suggests that compatibility in status, wealth, and background ensures a smooth relationship; in conflict, it implies that one should only engage with an opponent of equal strength for a fair or meaningful outcome.

A nose ring given to a person with no nose, a seed sown that will not sprout.

This proverb is used to describe wasted effort or useless gifts. Just as a nose ring is pointless for someone who has lost their nose, and a dead seed will never grow regardless of how much it is tended to, some actions are fundamentally futile or given to those who cannot benefit from them.

Difficulty is plenty for the impossible; scratches are plenty on a worthless coin.

This proverb is used to describe things or people that are useless or ineffective but require an excessive amount of effort or come with unnecessary complications. It highlights that a task that doesn't yield results often feels more burdensome, just as a counterfeit or worthless coin often has more markings or scratches than a genuine one.

Whether it is a woman, a creeper plant, or poetry, support is necessary.

This classic expression suggests that certain things cannot flourish or stand on their own without external support. A creeper needs a tree or pole to climb, poetry needs a patron or a platform to be appreciated, and traditionally, it was said that a woman needs the support of her family or society to thrive.