మతిమరుపు వానికి మల్లిరుపు వాడు

matimarupu vaniki mallirupu vadu

Translation

For the forgetful man, there is the thorny man.

Meaning

This proverb describes the interaction between two people with different flaws: one who is extremely forgetful and another who is highly irritable or troublesome. It implies that for every person with a particular weakness, there is someone else who will provoke or challenge that weakness, often leading to a difficult situation.

Related Phrases

The barren cow bellows much, and in the year of drought there is much thunder. Much smoke and little roast. (Italian.) All talk and no go.

This proverb describes people who possess little knowledge or substance but make the most noise or display. Just as a cow that doesn't give milk moos loudly, and a riverbed during a drought may produce lightning or illusions of water without providing actual relief, empty or incompetent people often brag or shout the loudest to hide their lack of worth.

Sparse crop is a celebration for the harvest; dense crop is a celebration for the eyes.

This proverb highlights a practical observation in farming. A sparse crop (pachuni panta) is easy to harvest and manage, making the work celebratory. Conversely, a dense, lush crop (ottu panta) is beautiful to look at and brings joy to the eyes, even if it requires more intensive labor during the harvest.

A barren cow moows the most.

This proverb is the Telugu equivalent of 'Empty vessels make the most noise.' It is used to describe people who lack substance, talent, or knowledge but boast excessively or talk loudly to gain attention.

The word 'tomorrow' has no form.

This proverb is used to emphasize that the future is uncertain and unpredictable. It serves as a reminder to not procrastinate or rely on tomorrow, as 'tomorrow' never truly arrives and its shape remains unknown.

It is within the control of sight, but not within the control of ears.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone can see the consequences or a solution clearly with their eyes, but the person involved is unwilling to listen to advice or reason. It highlights the gap between observing a reality and getting someone to acknowledge or obey it through verbal communication.

By rivalry a house is ruined, by rheumatic pains the body is worn out.

This proverb highlights how internal conflicts and constant bickering between family members or partners lead to the downfall of a household. It compares this domestic discord to 'Vata' (rheumatic or joint pains) which slowly but surely deteriorates the physical body. It is used to advise people to maintain harmony at home to avoid total ruin.

You should not stay near a young buffalo, or an old creditor.

This proverb warns about potential dangers or troubles. Standing near a buffalo's calf is dangerous because the mother buffalo may attack to protect it. Similarly, being near an old creditor is risky as they will inevitably demand their money back, causing social embarrassment or financial pressure. It advises staying away from situations that trigger trouble.

To a person who has no path (resource), there is a greed for a cow.

This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks the basic means of survival but possesses extravagant or unrealistic desires. It highlights the irony of someone who cannot afford basic necessities yet craves luxury or high-maintenance assets.

A husband for appearances only, not for providing happiness.

This proverb is used to describe a situation or person that looks competent or sufficient on the outside but fails to fulfill their primary responsibilities or provide the expected benefits. In a literal sense, it refers to a spouse who maintains the social status of marriage but fails to provide emotional, physical, or financial support. Metaphorically, it is used for any object or person that is decorative but useless in practice.

He that breaks his word is a Pariah.

This proverb emphasizes the supreme importance of honesty and integrity. It suggests that a person's character and social standing are defined by their ability to keep promises. Historically, it was used to imply that failing to honor one's word leads to a loss of honor and respect in society, comparing the act of lying to being cast out of the social order.