ముద్దులాడితే ముక్కు నొక్కినట్లు
mudduladite mukku nokkinatlu
Like pressing the nose while showing affection with a kiss
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone's attempt to show love, kindness, or help actually results in causing harm or annoyance. It refers to people who do not know the boundaries of affection or how to help properly, ending up being counterproductive.
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గుడ్డివాడు అలుకు తొక్కినట్లు
guddivadu aluku tokkinatlu
Like a blind man stepping on wet dung floor-wash.
This expression describes a situation where someone performs a task haphazardly, clumsily, or without any sense of direction or awareness. It is used when someone's actions are messy and lack the precision or skill required for the job.
మాట్లాడితే మడమ తిప్పడం
matladite madama tippadam
Turning the heel as soon as one speaks
This expression is used to describe someone who is inconsistent, frequently changes their stance, or fails to stand by their word. It characterizes a person who lacks integrity or goes back on promises immediately after making them.
దంచినమ్మకు బొక్కిందే దక్కినట్లు
danchinammaku bokkinde dakkinatlu
Like the woman who threshes only gets to keep what she nibbled.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone works extremely hard on a task, but receives very little or insignificant benefit compared to the effort put in. It refers to the manual labor of pounding grain, where the worker might only get to eat a few grains that fall into her mouth while the bulk of the produce goes to someone else.
మూతి ముద్దులకేడిస్తే, వీపు గుద్దులకేడ్చిందట
muti muddulakediste, vipu guddulakedchindata
When the mouth cried for kisses, the back cried for punches.
This proverb describes a situation where someone's attempt to gain affection or a favor results in an unexpected punishment or a harsh consequence. It is often used to mock someone who expected a reward but received a reprimand instead, or when a situation backfires completely.
మన దీపమని ముద్దులాడితే మూతి కాలకుండా ఉంటుందా?
mana dipamani mudduladite muti kalakunda untunda?
If you kiss a lamp just because it is yours, won't your mouth get burnt?
This proverb highlights that certain things are inherently dangerous or have consequences regardless of our affection or ownership. It is used to caution someone that being close to or protecting a wrongdoer, even if they are a loved one or family member, will eventually result in harm to oneself.
దెప్పె ఎక్కినట్లు, దేవుడికి మొక్కినట్లు.
deppe ekkinatlu, devudiki mokkinatlu.
Like climbing the hill and praying to God.
This expression describes doing things for the sake of formality or in a routine, mechanical manner without real devotion or focus. It is used when someone performs a task just to get it over with or to show others they have done it, rather than putting in genuine effort or intent.
గొల్ల నుద్దులు, పిల్ల ముద్దులు
golla nuddulu, pilla muddulu
The shepherd's nap and a child's kisses.
This proverb refers to things that are brief and short-lived. A shepherd's sleep is interrupted by the flock, just as a child's kiss is fleeting. It is used to describe tasks or moments that do not last long.
తవుడు బొక్కినంతవరకే దక్కినట్లు.
tavudu bokkinantavarake dakkinatlu.
Only the bran you have stuffed into your mouth is yours.
This proverb emphasizes that only what you have already consumed or secured for yourself is truly yours. It is used to describe situations involving uncertainty or limited resources, suggesting that one should value what they have already obtained rather than relying on future promises or potential gains that may never materialize.
మొండిముక్కున ముక్కెర ఉన్నట్టు
mondimukkuna mukkera unnattu
A nose jewel in a torn nose.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone attempts to decorate or improve something that is fundamentally broken or flawed. It refers to misplaced efforts or superficial improvements that do not suit the actual condition of the object or person.
ఆవునొక్కిన తలుగుకు లోగినట్లు
avunokkina taluguku loginatlu
Like cow being submissive to the rope that pressed against it
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone becomes completely submissive or compliant due to pressure, force, or the fear of authority. Just as a cow yields when its neck is tethered or pressed by a rope (talugu), a person might give in or lose their resistance when they are under tight control or caught in a difficult situation.