నా సద్ది తెచ్చి నీ ఇడుపున పెట్టుకొని తినడమెందుకు?

na saddi techchi ni idupuna pettukoni tinadamenduku?

Translation

Why should I bring my packed meal and keep it in your lap to eat?

Meaning

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone expects another person to do all the work or provide all the resources, only for the other person to take the credit or maintain control over the outcome. It signifies a redundant or exploitative arrangement where one party gains nothing despite providing everything.

Related Phrases

Why search, and why consult a fortune teller?

This expression is used to suggest that when something is obvious or already known, there is no need for unnecessary investigation or seeking mystical explanations. It implies that further questioning is redundant when the reality is right in front of one's eyes.

Like buying and bringing a funeral ceremony upon oneself.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or a burdensome task through their own actions. It implies that a person has self-inflicted a headache or problem that could have been easily avoided.

Like buying and bringing home a funeral ceremony.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or a burden upon themselves through their own actions. It implies that a problem which didn't exist was intentionally 'purchased' or brought home by the individual.

Cutting a tree and letting it fall on one's self. Bringing trouble on one's own head. The fool hunts for misfortune. (French.)

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone's own actions or attempts to solve a problem backfire, causing them self-inflicted harm or trouble. It is similar to the English idiom 'to dig one's own grave' or 'to shoot oneself in the foot'.

* Plega l'albero quando à giovane. † Gammel Green bryder nær den skal boles. Le fou cherche son malheur.

If the person serving the food is one of our own, it doesn't matter where we sit.

This proverb highlights that if the person in power or authority is your well-wisher or relative, you will receive benefits regardless of your position or status. It is often used to describe nepotism or the advantage of having influential connections.

Like buying and bringing a disease with which the body is not troubled. Wilfully bringing trouble on one's self.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or creates a problem for themselves when things were perfectly fine before. It refers to self-inflicted complications or meddling in affairs that lead to unwanted stress.

Why ride a horse today, only to ride a donkey tomorrow?

This proverb is used to criticize inconsistency or a sudden fall in status/standard of living. It highlights the futility of enjoying a high status temporarily if one has to settle for something much lower shortly after. It suggests that it is better to maintain a steady, sustainable position rather than experiencing extreme highs and lows.

He tells me to put the elephant into the cotton basket, to place the basket on his head, and to lift him up. Ékulabuttā is a very small hand basket. Being asked to do an utter impossibility.

This expression describes a person who creates an impossibly heavy or complicated situation through their own foolish actions and then expects others to help them out of it. It highlights the absurdity of self-created burdens and the unreasonable expectation for others to solve problems that defy logic.

Buying a Taddinam. Bringing difficulties upon one's own head.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily invites trouble or creates a headache for themselves by their own actions or choices. It is similar to the English expression 'to go looking for trouble' or 'asking for it.'

* Alterâ manu scabunt, altera ferunt.

While having a house, should one eat in a temporary shelter?

This proverb suggests that one should utilize their own resources and comforts rather than opting for inferior or inconvenient alternatives. It is used to question why someone would choose a difficult or unnecessary path when they already have a settled and comfortable option available.