నలుగురితో చావు పెండ్లితో సమానం

nalugurito chavu pendlito samanam

Translation

Death along with four people is equal to a wedding.

Meaning

This expression suggests that shared suffering or a collective misfortune is easier to endure than individual hardship. It implies that when a problem affects everyone equally, the shared experience provides a sense of comfort or normalization, making even the worst situation (like death) feel as bearable or significant as a celebration (like a wedding).

Related Phrases

With many people death is equal to marriage. Applied to an honorable death in a good cause.

This proverb suggests that when a misfortune or hardship is shared by many, it becomes easier to bear. Just as a wedding is a communal celebration, facing a difficult situation as a group provides collective strength and comfort, making even a 'death-like' situation feel less burdensome.

Death along with ten people is equal to a wedding

This expression means that when a difficulty or disaster is shared by many, it becomes easier to bear. It suggests that collective suffering reduces individual pain or that facing a challenge as a group provides a sense of solidarity and comfort, similar to the shared joy of a wedding.

Does death have a death?

This expression is used to signify that something is eternal, inevitable, or that a particular cycle or entity cannot be destroyed. It often implies that a fundamental reality or a recurring problem cannot be ended or killed off simply.

A woman who didn't know what to do with her time went to her sister-in-law's sister's wedding.

This proverb is used to describe someone who involves themselves in unnecessary or irrelevant tasks just because they are bored or have nothing better to do. It highlights a person seeking distraction through distant connections or trivial activities.

Death along with many people is equivalent to a wedding.

This proverb suggests that when a misfortune or a difficult situation is shared by a large group, it becomes easier to bear. It reflects the human psychological comfort found in solidarity during times of crisis, implying that suffering alone is a tragedy, but suffering together is a shared experience.

Narayana along with the four (people), Govinda along with the community.

This proverb is used to describe the tendency of a person to blindly follow the crowd or conform to societal norms regardless of personal opinion or the correctness of the action. It implies going with the flow or following the majority to avoid standing out or facing conflict.

Along with the four (people) chant Narayana; along with the community chant Govinda.

This proverb suggests that one should follow the crowd or conform to social norms rather than standing out. It is often used to describe situations where a person goes along with the majority's actions or decisions, even if they don't have a strong personal conviction, simply to fit in or avoid trouble.

The death of ten people is equal to a wedding.

This proverb suggests that when a disaster or misfortune is shared by a large group, it becomes easier to bear than a personal tragedy. Similar to how people gather for a wedding, a collective struggle provides a sense of solidarity and reduces individual grief.

A girl born after three consecutive boys is equal to a co-sister-in-law.

This traditional Telugu proverb refers to the specific family dynamic when a girl is born after three sons. It suggests that such a child is treated with high regard, authority, or maturity within the household, similar to the status of a co-sister-in-law (Eralu) who shares responsibilities and status in the family hierarchy.

A stupid woman going to the marriage of her husband's bro- ther's wife's sister. Doing useless things.

This proverb describes someone who gets involved in unnecessary or distant matters just because they are bored or have no work of their own. It is used to mock people who waste time on trivial or unrelated tasks instead of doing something productive.