నీకు ఒక దండం, నీ బువ్వకు ఒక దండం

niku oka dandam, ni buvvaku oka dandam

Translation

A bow to you, a bow to your food. Said when offered bad food.

Meaning

This expression is used when someone is fed up with another person's troublesome behavior or difficult nature. It signifies a desire to cut ties or stay away from them, implying 'I don't want your company, nor do I want to share a meal with you; just leave me alone.'

Related Phrases

The disease is one, the medicine is another. i. e. the one is not fitted to remove the other. Said of unsuitable remedies.

This expression is used to describe a situation where the solution provided does not match the problem at hand, or when actions taken are completely irrelevant to the actual issue. It highlights a lack of coordination or understanding in addressing a specific challenge.

One word to a good man, one stroke to a good bullock. A nod for a wise man, and a rod for a fool.

This proverb emphasizes that an intelligent or sensible person understands and acts upon a single word of advice or instruction, just as a disciplined ox responds to a single stroke. It is used to suggest that wise people do not need repeated warnings or explanations to do the right thing.

Every head has its idiosyncrasy, and every tongue its taste. All tastes are tastes. (Italian.) There is no disputing of tastes, appetites, and fancies.

This proverb highlights the diversity of human nature and preferences. It suggests that just as different people enjoy different flavors, every individual possesses their own unique way of thinking, personality traits, and opinions. It is used to explain why people disagree or have varying interests.

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He calls himself a man, and the bran he eats, bread. A vulgar person taking airs.

This proverb is used to dismiss someone's significance or capability by comparing them to something of poor quality, like bread made from bran (chaff). It is typically used when a person of low status or limited skill attempts to do something beyond their reach, or when someone is being ignored as insignificant.

Going to Benares is one thing; bringing back a Kāvadi ( of Ganges water ) is another. Two great things to be done. Applied to keeping one great object in view.

This proverb is used to describe a long, arduous process or a project that involves two distinct, equally difficult stages. It implies that completing the first half of a journey or task is not enough; the return or the follow-through is just as critical and challenging. It emphasizes persistence and completeness in any undertaking.

A salute to your alms, but please tie up your dog first.

This proverb is used when someone offers help or a favor that comes with more trouble or danger than it is worth. It signifies that the recipient would rather forego the benefit if it means avoiding the associated harassment or headache. Historically, 'bepi' refers to a dog or a nuisance, used in the context of a beggar asking a homeowner to restrain their barking dog before they can accept charity.

Like bowing to the stick held under the arm.

This expression refers to a situation where someone shows respect or obeys another person not out of genuine regard, but out of fear of the weapon or power they possess. It is used when a person's submission is forced by an immediate threat of violence or authority.

A time for misfortune, a time for fortune.

This proverb conveys that life is a cycle of ups and downs. Just as seasons change, periods of suffering will eventually be followed by periods of prosperity and happiness. It is used to offer hope during difficult times or to remind people to stay humble during successful times.

To keep an elephant [ a man requires ] a country, to keep a horse a village, and to keep a she-buffalo a maid.

This proverb describes the specific resource requirements of different animals based on their status and size. It is used metaphorically to explain that every individual or entity needs an environment or support system proportionate to their scale or nature to thrive.

One year to the potter, one blow to the cudgel. The cudgel destroys in one blow what has cost the potter a year's labour. The sudden loss of that gained by much labour.

This proverb highlights the contrast between the time and effort taken to create something versus how easily it can be destroyed. It is used to describe situations where long-term hard work is undone in a single moment of misfortune or a single careless act.