పడ్డవాడే బిడ్డను కనాలి
paddavade biddanu kanali
The one who suffered (the labor pains) must give birth to the child.
This proverb emphasizes personal responsibility and consequences. It means that the person who takes on a task or undergoes the struggle is the one who must see it through to completion, or that the person who makes a mistake must be the one to face the results.
Related Phrases
ఎవరికో పుట్టిన బిడ్డను తన బిడ్డని ఎగిరెగిరి ముద్దుపెట్టుకున్నట్లు
evariko puttina biddanu tana biddani egiregiri muddupettukunnatlu
Like jumping and kissing someone else's child as if they were one's own.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone takes undue credit or feels excessive pride and excitement for something they did not create or achieve themselves. It highlights the absurdity of claiming ownership or being overly enthusiastic about someone else's hard work or success.
తీగ లాగితే డొంకంతా కదిలినట్లు
tiga lagite donkanta kadilinatlu
If you pull the vine, the entire thicket moves.
This expression is used to describe a situation where a single action or a small clue leads to the discovery of a much larger, interconnected issue or a hidden network of events. It is similar to the English idiom 'pulling a thread' or 'opening a can of worms'.
కండెవంటి బిడ్డ అమ్మా అంటే కండెతెచ్చి పెట్టమని పడ్డాడట.
kandevanti bidda amma ante kandetechchi pettamani paddadata.
When someone said the child is as soft as a spindle of thread, the child started crying demanding that they be given the actual spindle.
This proverb is used to describe a person who is extremely literal-minded or childishly stubborn. It refers to a situation where a compliment or a metaphor is taken literally, leading to unnecessary demands or a fuss. It mocks the lack of common sense or the tendency to misinterpret figurative speech.
అబ్బ పెంచిన బిడ్డ అయినా కావాలి, అమ్మ పెంచిన బిడ్డ అయినా కావాలి, ముండ పెంచిన బిడ్డ మండలాధిపతి అవుతాడా?
abba penchina bidda ayina kavali, amma penchina bidda ayina kavali, munda penchina bidda mandaladhipati avutada?
A child must be raised by a father or a mother; can a child raised by a mistress become a ruler?
This traditional proverb emphasizes the importance of a proper upbringing, parental guidance, and legitimate social standing in shaping a person's character and future success. It suggests that without the discipline and moral foundation provided by parents, one cannot achieve great heights or leadership roles. It is often used to highlight that a lack of proper mentorship leads to a lack of merit.
ఆలు పడ్డ ఇల్లు, ఎద్దు పడ్డ సేద్యం ముందుకురావు.
alu padda illu, eddu padda sedyam mundukuravu.
A house where the wife is unhappy, and a farm where the ox is fallen, will not progress.
This proverb emphasizes that peace and health are foundational for success. If the woman of the house (the 'Aalu') is suffering or unhappy, the household cannot thrive. Similarly, if the ox used for plowing is weak or collapsed, the farming cannot move forward. It is used to highlight the importance of the well-being of those who anchor the home and profession.
గుంటలో బిడ్డ, కడుపులో బిడ్డ
guntalo bidda, kadupulo bidda
The baby in the pit and the baby in the womb.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person is taking care of or worrying about two critical things at once, typically referring to the heavy burden of responsibility or the multitasking required in parenting and household management. It can also imply a state of continuous struggle or being overwhelmed by multiple life demands.
బతకని బిడ్డ బారెడు
batakani bidda baredu
The child who doesn't survive appears a fathom long.
This expression is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities or potential of things that are already lost or projects that have failed. Just as a child who died at birth is often remembered as being exceptionally healthy or large, people often overstate the greatness of 'what could have been' in hindsight.
కక్కిన బిడ్డ దక్కుతుంది
kakkina bidda dakkutundi
A child who vomits will survive (thrive)
This is a traditional Telugu saying used by elders to reassure worried parents when an infant spits up milk. It suggests that vomiting is a sign of a healthy appetite or overfeeding, and implies that the child is growing well and will remain healthy.
కడుపున పుట్టిన బిడ్డకన్న కంటను కన్నబిడ్డ ఎక్కువ.
kadupuna puttina biddakanna kantanu kannabidda ekkuva.
A child seen with one's eyes is greater than a child born from the womb.
This proverb emphasizes that nurturing, seeing, and taking care of a child with one's own eyes is more significant than the mere biological act of giving birth. It is often used to highlight the value of adoption, foster care, or the bond formed through upbringing over biological ties.
ఆలస్యమైనా అంటుబొడ్డుదాన్నే కనాలి.
alasyamaina antuboddudanne kanali.
Even if it is delayed, one should give birth to a child with an attached umbilical cord.
This proverb emphasizes quality over speed. It suggests that it is better to wait and achieve a perfect or legitimate result rather than rushing and ending up with something flawed or incomplete. It is often used to advise patience in important matters to ensure a successful outcome.