పందిరి ఇల్లూ కాదు, పరదేశి మొగుడూ కాదు
pandiri illu kadu, paradeshi mogudu kadu
A shed is not a house, and a traveler is not a husband.
This proverb describes temporary or unreliable situations. Just as a temporary thatched shed (pandiri) cannot provide the permanence and security of a real home, a stranger or traveler who is just passing through cannot fulfill the long-term responsibilities of a life partner. It is used to caution against relying on things or people that lack stability or commitment.
Related Phrases
పందిరి మంచం మీద పడుకొనే పందిరి గుంజా పనిచెయ్యి అన్నాడట
pandiri mancham mida padukone pandiri gunja panicheyyi annadata
While lying down on a canopy bed, he supposedly asked the canopy pillar to do his work.
This proverb is used to describe an extremely lazy person who wants others to do their work even while they are comfortably resting. It highlights a sense of entitlement and lack of effort, where one expects service or results without moving a muscle.
ఏడ్చేదాని మొగుడు వస్తే, నా మొగుడూ వస్తాడు
edchedani mogudu vaste, na mogudu vastadu
If the crying woman's husband returns, my husband will return too.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone waits for others to act or succeed before taking initiative themselves, or a situation where one's fate is tied to the general outcome of a group. It is often used to mock someone who lacks independent drive and simply follows the crowd's luck or progress.
ఏడిచేదాని మొగుడు వస్తే, నా మొగుడూ వస్తాడు
edichedani mogudu vaste, na mogudu vastadu
If the weeping widow's husband returns, mine will come also. Stolid indifference. Want of feeling.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone's own success or progress is entirely dependent on another person's outcome. It reflects a state of helplessness or a wait-and-see approach, implying 'if it can happen for them, it will eventually happen for me too.'
పందిరి ఇల్లు కాదు, పరదేశి మొగుడు కాదు
pandiri illu kadu, paradeshi mogudu kadu
A shed is not a house, and a traveler is not a husband.
This proverb highlights the importance of stability and permanence. Just as a temporary thatched shed (pandiri) cannot provide the security of a permanent home, a person who is just passing through (paradesi) cannot fulfill the long-term responsibilities or provide the stability expected of a spouse. It is used to caution against relying on temporary arrangements or people who lack commitment.
మహాలక్ష్మి పరదేశము పోయినట్టు
mahalakshmi paradeshamu poyinattu
Like the goddess of fortune emigrating. Said of an avaricious person going to seek for some small gains.
This expression is used to describe a sudden and significant loss of wealth, prosperity, or grace from a household or a person. Just as the departure of the Goddess of Wealth implies the onset of poverty or misfortune, it signifies a complete reversal of fortune where a once-flourishing situation turns bleak.
ఇంటి మొగుడు మట్టిగబ్బు, పొరుగింటి మొగుడు పూలవాసన
inti mogudu mattigabbu, poruginti mogudu pulavasana
Own husband smells like mud, neighbor's husband smells like flowers.
This proverb is used to describe the human tendency to undervalue what one already possesses while overestimating the value or quality of what others have. It is similar to the English expression 'The grass is always greener on the other side.'
నన్నమ్మకు మొగుడు, తిమ్మన్న తల్లికి మొగుడు.
nannammaku mogudu, timmanna talliki mogudu.
A husband to Nannamma, and a husband to Timmanna's mother.
This expression is used to describe someone who is extremely clever, cunning, or a 'know-it-all' who thinks they can outsmart anyone. It refers to a person who claims superiority over those who are already considered experts or authorities in a particular field, often used in a sarcastic tone to highlight someone's overconfidence or manipulative nature.
ఇల్లు ఈడుమాను, పందిరి పట్టిమంచం
illu idumanu, pandiri pattimancham
The house is just a beam, the canopy is just a cot.
This proverb is used to describe someone who lives in extreme poverty or has very minimal possessions. It highlights a situation where one's entire property or shelter is limited to the barest essentials, often used sarcastically to humble someone boasting about their status when they actually have nothing.
అరువు సత్రం కాదు, పందిరి ఇల్లు కాదు.
aruvu satram kadu, pandiri illu kadu.
A loan is not an almshouse, a canopy is not a house.
This proverb emphasizes that borrowed items or temporary arrangements are not permanent solutions. Just as a guest house (satram) offers free shelter while a loan must be repaid, and a temporary shed (pandiri) cannot provide the security of a permanent home, one should not rely on borrowed things as if they are their own property.
కలతమారి మొగుడు కమ్మలు చేయిస్తే, అప్పలకూటి మొగుడు అమ్ముకుతిన్నాడు
kalatamari mogudu kammalu cheyiste, appalakuti mogudu ammukutinnadu
When a quarrelsome husband got earrings made, the debt-ridden husband sold them and ate.
This proverb highlights a contrast in misfortunes or types of husbands. It describes a situation where one woman has a difficult, argumentative husband who at least provides an asset (earrings), while another woman has a husband who is so burdened by debt or poverty that he sells off what little they have just to survive. It is used to compare different types of domestic struggles or to show that someone's gain is often lost due to another's dire circumstances.