పట్టుచీర ఎరవిచ్చి, పీటపట్టుకుని వెంట తిరిగినట్లు
pattuchira eravichchi, pitapattukuni venta tiriginatlu
Lending a silk saree and then following them around carrying a low wooden stool.
This expression describes a situation where someone helps another person or lends them something valuable, but then becomes overly anxious or intrusive about its safety. It refers to a person who, after doing a favor, constantly hovers over the recipient to ensure their belongings aren't damaged or soiled (the stool is meant for the person to sit on so the saree doesn't touch the ground). It is used to mock those who can't trust others even after offering help.
Related Phrases
ఊరు తిరిగి రమ్మంటే, రోలు తిరిగి వచ్చినట్లు
uru tirigi rammante, rolu tirigi vachchinatlu
Like being told to go around the village but only going around the mortar
This expression is used to describe someone who is extremely lazy or lacks initiative. It refers to a person who, when given a large task (circling the village), performs the smallest, most effortless version of it (circling the grinding stone inside the house) and claims they are finished.
కట్టుచీర లేనినాడు పట్టుచీర బయటకు వస్తుంది.
kattuchira leninadu pattuchira bayataku vastundi.
When there is no common saree to wear, the silk saree comes out.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone is forced to use their most expensive or valued items out of sheer necessity because their everyday essentials are unavailable or exhausted. It highlights a state of extreme poverty or a situation where things have reached a critical point, leaving one with no choice but to utilize their final, reserved resources.
మారుచీర లేక మేలుచీర కట్టుకొన్నట్లు
maruchira leka meluchira kattukonnatlu
Like wearing a high-end saree because one does not have a spare change of clothes.
This expression describes a situation where someone is forced to use an expensive or precious resource for a mundane task simply because they lack a basic or ordinary alternative. It highlights a lack of preparedness or the irony of using something luxury out of necessity rather than choice.
భోజనానికి వద్దంటే, పట్టుచీర కట్టుకొని వస్తానన్నట్లు
bhojananiki vaddante, pattuchira kattukoni vastanannatlu
When told not to come for the meal, she said she would come wearing a silk saree.
This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks self-respect or fails to take a hint. It refers to someone who insists on attending an event or staying in a situation where they are clearly not welcome or have been explicitly disinvited, often by trying to justify their presence with superficial excuses.
పల్లె తిరిగినా ఏడే చీరలు, పట్నం తిరిగినా ఏడే చీరలు
palle tirigina ede chiralu, patnam tirigina ede chiralu
Whether you roam the village or the city, you only have seven sarees.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person's basic status, limitations, or fortune remain unchanged regardless of their surroundings or efforts to change location. It implies that changing one's environment doesn't necessarily change one's inherent reality or possessions.
వారకాంత కట్టిన చీర వారణాసిపట్టు, పేదరాలు కట్టిన చీర పిచ్చిపట్టు.
varakanta kattina chira varanasipattu, pedaralu kattina chira pichchipattu.
The saree worn by a courtesan is considered Varanasi silk, while the saree worn by a poor woman is considered madman's silk.
This proverb highlights social prejudice and how the same thing is perceived differently based on a person's status or wealth. If a wealthy or influential person does something, it is praised or seen as a luxury; if a poor person does the same, it is dismissed or looked down upon.
ఎదిగిన దాన్ని వెంటేసుకుని తిరిగినట్లు
edigina danni ventesukuni tiriginatlu
Like wandering around with a grown-up daughter.
This expression is used to describe an awkward or burdensome situation where one has to constantly look after or accompany someone who is already grown up or a task that has become too large to handle easily. It often refers to the social and protective responsibility a parent feels for a daughter of marriageable age in traditional contexts, implying a sense of constant vigilance or a lingering responsibility that one cannot easily set aside.
భోజనానికి వద్దంటే పట్టుచీర కట్టుకొస్తానన్నట్లు
bhojananiki vaddante pattuchira kattukostanannatlu
Like saying she will wear a silk saree when told not to come for the meal
This expression is used to describe a person who behaves contrary to the situation or reacts inappropriately to a rejection. It highlights an individual's stubbornness or their attempt to show off even when they are not welcome or when the primary request was a 'no'.
పీతాంబరము ఎరువిచ్చినమ్మ పీట వెంబడి పట్టుకొని తిరగవలసినది.
pitambaramu eruvichchinamma pita vembadi pattukoni tiragavalasinadi.
The woman who lent her silk garment had to follow the seat everywhere.
This proverb describes a situation where someone provides a valuable resource or favor to another, but then becomes so anxious or overbearing about its care that they end up constantly hovering over the recipient. It is used to illustrate how excessive strings attached to a favor can make the help more burdensome than beneficial for both parties.
ఇల్లు గెలవలేనోడు రచ్చ గెలవలేడు
illu gelavalenodu rachcha gelavaledu
When he was asked to walk round the house he walked round the shed.
This proverb suggests that success begins at home. If a person cannot manage their own domestic affairs or earn the respect of their family, they are unlikely to succeed in public life or handle community matters effectively.