తన సొమ్ము తను తిని, తన బట్ట తను కట్టి, సావట్లో వానితో చావు దెబ్బలు తిందట.
tana sommu tanu tini, tana batta tanu katti, savatlo vanito chavu debbalu tindata.
Eating her own food, wearing her own clothes, she yet got beaten to death by him in the hallway.
This proverb describes a situation where a person is completely self-sufficient and independent, yet still allows themselves to be oppressed or mistreated by someone else who has no authority or right over them. It is used to highlight the absurdity of tolerating abuse or dominance when one is not dependent on the abuser for anything.
Related Phrases
స్థాన బలిమి కానీ తన బలిమి కాదు
sthana balimi kani tana balimi kadu
It is the strength of the position, not one's own strength.
This expression is used to describe a situation where a person's power, influence, or authority comes entirely from the position or office they hold rather than their personal merit or capability. It highlights that once the individual leaves that specific role or location, they no longer possess that same power.
నలుగురితో చావు పెళ్ళితో సమానం
nalugurito chavu pellito samanam
Death along with many people is equivalent to a wedding.
This proverb suggests that when a misfortune or a difficult situation is shared by a large group, it becomes easier to bear. It reflects the human psychological comfort found in solidarity during times of crisis, implying that suffering alone is a tragedy, but suffering together is a shared experience.
తన అన్నం తాను తింటూ, తన గుడ్డ తాను కట్టుతూ ఊరికి భయపడవలెనా
tana annam tanu tintu, tana gudda tanu kattutu uriki bhayapadavalena
While eating one's own food and wearing one's own clothes, should one fear the village?
This expression is used to assert independence and self-reliance. It implies that if a person is self-sufficient, works hard for their own livelihood, and does not depend on others for basic needs like food or clothing, they do not need to worry about societal criticism or be intimidated by others' opinions.
తనను కట్టే తాళ్ళు తానే తెచ్చుకున్నట్టు
tananu katte tallu tane techchukunnattu
Like bringing the very ropes that will be used to tie oneself up.
This proverb describes a situation where a person's own actions, decisions, or words inadvertently lead to their own downfall, trouble, or restriction. It is used when someone creates the very tools or circumstances that others eventually use against them.
పరుల సొమ్ము పేలపిండి, తన సొమ్ము దేవుడి సొమ్ము
parula sommu pelapindi, tana sommu devudi sommu
The property of others is Pêlapindi, his own property is the property of God. It is kept as sacred as that which has been offered to the deity.— Pêlapindi is flour made of fried grain.
This proverb describes a hypocritical and selfish attitude where a person treats others' belongings as cheap or easily disposable while considering their own possessions as sacred and untouchable. It is used to criticize people who are extravagant with others' money but extremely stingy with their own.
వలపుకు పలుపు దెబ్బలు వయ్యారికి చెప్పు దెబ్బలు
valapuku palupu debbalu vayyariki cheppu debbalu
Rope lashings for infatuation and slipper hits for a coquette.
This proverb suggests that infatuation or reckless passion needs to be restrained with force (like a cattle rope), and a flirtatious person who crosses boundaries needs to be humbled or corrected with harsh treatment. It is used to imply that certain behaviors only stop when met with strict punishment.
తనువు తాను కాదనువానికి తపసు చేయనేల
tanuvu tanu kadanuvaniki tapasu cheyanela
Why should one who realizes they are not the body perform penance?
This expression originates from Vemana's poetry. it suggests that the ultimate goal of spiritual practice is self-realization. Once a person understands that their true self is the soul (Atma) and not the physical body, formal rituals or rigorous penance (Tapas) become unnecessary, as they have already attained the highest wisdom.
తన చేయి కాలుతుందని, సవతి బిడ్డ చేతితో కలియబెట్టిందట.
tana cheyi kalutundani, savati bidda chetito kaliyabettindata.
Fearing her own hand would get burnt, she stirred the pot with her stepchild's hand.
This proverb describes extreme selfishness and cruelty. It is used to refer to a person who, in order to avoid a small discomfort or risk to themselves, heartlessly puts someone else (especially someone vulnerable) in significant danger or harm.
పొరుగూరి చాకిరి, పొరుగూరి వ్యవసాయం, తనను తినేవే కాని, తాను తినేవి కావు.
poruguri chakiri, poruguri vyavasayam, tananu tineve kani, tanu tinevi kavu.
Service in another village and farming in another village consume a person rather than feeding them.
This proverb highlights the inefficiency and loss involved in managing work or assets far from one's residence. It suggests that laboring for others in a distant place or trying to manage agriculture in a different village results in more exhaustion and expense than actual profit or benefit. It is used to advise people to focus on local opportunities where they can supervise and sustain themselves better.
తనను కట్టే త్రాళ్ళు తానే తెచ్చుకొన్నట్లు
tananu katte trallu tane techchukonnatlu
Like bringing the very ropes that will be used to tie oneself up.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone's own actions, decisions, or words lead to their own downfall or trouble. It is similar to the English idioms 'digging one's own grave' or 'being the architect of one's own misfortune.'