తిండికి ముందుండాలి, పనికి వెనక ఉండాలి
tindiki mundundali, paniki venaka undali
Be first for food and last for work.
This humorous proverb describes a person who is lazy and opportunistic. It is used to mock someone who shows great enthusiasm for benefits (like eating) but avoids responsibility or hard labor.
Related Phrases
తినడానికి తిండి లేకపోయినా, పెళ్ళికి వెళ్ళాలి
tinadaniki tindi lekapoyina, pelliki vellali
Even if there is no food to eat, one must go to a wedding.
This proverb is used to describe people who prioritize social appearances, celebrations, or free feasts even when they are struggling with basic necessities at home. It can also imply that certain social obligations are so important that people will attend them regardless of their personal financial situation.
అయ్య కదురువలె, అమ్మ కుదురువలె.
ayya kaduruvale, amma kuduruvale.
The husband like a spindle, the wife like a mortar.
This proverb describes a perfect match or a pair of people who are equally suited to one another, often in a humorous or satirical way. It implies that both the husband and wife are identical in their nature, habits, or appearances, often suggesting they are 'made for each other' in their quirks.
Kuduru is the upper and larger part of a stone mortar.
అయ్య కదురువలె, అమ్మ కుదురువలె
ayya kaduruvale, amma kuduruvale
The father is like a spindle, the mother is like a base-ring.
This expression describes a household where the father is restless, thin, or constantly moving like a spindle (kaduru), while the mother is steady, stout, or sedentary like a pot-rest/base-ring (kuduru). It is used to remark on the contrasting physical appearances or temperaments of a husband and wife.
బలిజె పుట్టుక పుట్టవలె, బతాయి బుడ్డి కొట్టవలె
balije puttuka puttavale, batayi buddi kottavale
You must be born a Balije to toss off Batavia arrack.
This is a rhyming colloquial expression traditionally used to describe a life of leisure, enjoyment, or indulgence. Historically, it refers to the Balija community's association with trade and social gatherings, implying that one should live life comfortably and enjoy the simple pleasures, like drinking a soda (goli soda) after a good meal.
Balije is a caste.
తుమ్మ దుడ్డువలె, కాపు కదురువలె.
tumma dudduvale, kapu kaduruvale.
The acacia tree like a heavy stick, the farmer like a spindle.
This proverb describes a situation where things are contrary to their ideal state or nature. Just as a piece of wood from an acacia tree (known for being thorny and crooked) is expected to be a heavy club, and a farmer (expected to be sturdy) looks thin like a spinning spindle, it refers to something being misshapen, ill-suited, or physically weakened.
ఆయన ముందర పోవలె.
ayana mundara povale.
He must die first, or I must die before him. An ambiguous phrase used by a bad wife.
This phrase is typically used to express a sense of urgency or priority in following someone's lead or instructions. It can also imply being proactive or staying ahead of someone in a competitive or social context. In some dialects, it may refer to the necessity of preceding someone during a ritual or formal procession.
పాడి దాచవలె, పంట పొగడవలె
padi dachavale, panta pogadavale
Milk production should be kept secret, while the crop should be praised.
This proverb suggests that one should be humble and discreet about their steady income or wealth (metaphorically the milk from cattle), while expressing pride and gratitude for their hard-earned achievements and successes (the harvest/crop). It emphasizes the wisdom in not flaunting daily prosperity to avoid jealousy, but celebrating general success.
చిన్నమూ కావలె, చిదరా కావలె, మేలిమీ కావలె, మెడ తిరగవలె.
chinnamu kavale, chidara kavale, melimi kavale, meda tiragavale.
The ornament must be one Chinnam or less in weight, of pure gold, and must go round the neck. A Chinnam is a weight equal to the ninth part of a pagoda ( No. 614 ). Wishing to get a good thing and to pay little for it.
This proverb describes a person who is extremely greedy and wants everything for themselves. It refers to someone who wants the big profits (pure gold), the small gains (loose change), and also wants to show off their wealth (turning the neck to display heavy jewelry). It is used to mock people who are never satisfied and try to grab every possible benefit in a situation.
సాగితే యడవాలి, జారితే పడవాలి
sagite yadavali, jarite padavali
If you can, you must give ; if you slip, you must fall.
This proverb advises adaptability and presence of mind based on the situation. It suggests that if things are going your way (stretching), you should make the most of it, but if a failure or slip-up is inevitable, one should accept it and fall gracefully rather than struggling fruitlessly. It is used to describe going with the flow of circumstances.
కుండలో కూడు కూడుగానే ఉండవలె, పిల్లలు మొద్దుల్లాగా ఉండవలె.
kundalo kudu kudugane undavale, pillalu moddullaga undavale.
The food in the pot should remain as it is, and the children should remain like logs.
This expression is used to describe an impossible or highly selfish desire where someone wants to enjoy the benefits of something without any of the associated costs or natural consequences. In this context, it refers to wanting children to be healthy and grow (like sturdy logs) while simultaneously wishing that they never consume the food in the house. It highlights a paradoxical or stingy mindset.