ఉంగరాల చేతితో మొట్టితే, నెప్పి ఉండదు

ungarala chetito mottite, neppi undadu

Translation

A rap with ringed fingers will cause no pain. A man who wears rings is generally well'off, and therefore pays hand- some damages for injuries inflicted.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe a situation where receiving a rebuke, correction, or punishment from a wealthy, powerful, or respected person is not seen as an insult or a pain, but rather as a blessing or a beneficial guidance. It implies that people are willing to tolerate harshness if it comes from someone of high status or someone they admire.

Related Phrases

Like breaking a ring to make a top, and then breaking the top to make a ring.

This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks a clear vision or skill, resulting in wasted effort and resources. It refers to someone who repeatedly undoes their own work or destroys something useful to create something else, only to reverse the process again, ending up with nothing productive or losing the original value of the materials.

Like measuring a cubit with a stump of a hand.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone attempts to do something impossible or lacks the necessary tools/means to complete a task. It highlights the futility or inaccuracy of an action when the essential component required for success is missing.

Like beating one's mouth (lamentation) with a maimed hand. Doing any thing clumsily.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is deeply frustrated or grieving but is unable to effectively express their pain or do anything about it. It signifies a state of utter helplessness where even one's attempts to lament are ineffective or incomplete due to a lack of resources or capability.

My hand is aching, beat with your hand upon your mouth. Mourning by proxy.

This is a sarcastic or witty expression used when someone is asked to perform a task for someone else that is either self-inflicted or redundant. It implies that the speaker is tired of helping and that the other person should take responsibility for their own burden or actions.

Like hitting oneself with a hand that has no fingers.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a person's efforts or protests are completely ineffective and go unnoticed. Just as a hand without fingers cannot produce a loud sound or physical impact when striking a surface, this phrase refers to someone who is so powerless or helpless that their complaints or struggles do not result in any change or attention.

There is no oil in sand, and there is no gold in clay.

This expression is used to signify that one cannot extract something valuable or useful from a source that inherently lacks it. It serves as a metaphor for futility, advising against wasting effort on people or situations that do not possess the qualities or resources one is looking for.

The rich man's ring is gold; the poor man's ring is brass.

This proverb highlights societal bias and how people's perceptions change based on a person's financial status. It means that if a wealthy person does or says something, it is highly valued and respected (like gold), but if a poor person does the exact same thing, it is disregarded or seen as cheap (like brass).

If the thief had said before that he was coming, I would have obtained witnesses.

This is a sarcastic expression used to highlight the absurdity of expecting a warning or a prepared response for a surprise event or a dishonest act. It is used when someone complains about the lack of evidence or preparedness regarding a sudden mishap or a betrayal, pointing out that such things do not happen with prior notice.

Saying no with the hand instead of saying no with the mouth.

This expression refers to someone who prefers giving or acting rather than just making verbal promises or refusals. It is often used to describe a person who is generous or practical, where their actions (hand) speak louder than their words (mouth).

Getting the hand burnt when a ladle is available

This expression is used when someone suffers unnecessary harm or puts in avoidable effort despite having the right tools or resources to complete a task safely. It highlights a lack of common sense or the failure to use available means to protect oneself.