వలచి వస్తే, మేనమామ కూతురు వావికాదన్నట్లు.
valachi vaste, menamama kuturu vavikadannatlu.
When she comes to you out of love, saying a maternal uncle's daughter is not a proper relation.
This proverb is used to describe a person who makes excuses to reject something valuable or appropriate simply because it is being offered easily or voluntarily. In Telugu culture, marrying a maternal uncle's daughter is traditionally considered a preferred and valid relationship (menarikam). The saying mocks the hypocrisy of someone who ignores established norms or desires just to be difficult when someone shows genuine affection or initiative.
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ముడ్డిలో పుండుకు మేనమామ వైద్యం
muddilo punduku menamama vaidyam
Medical treatment from a maternal uncle for a sore on the buttocks
This expression refers to an extremely embarrassing or awkward situation where one is forced to seek help from a close relative for a private or shameful problem. It highlights the discomfort and loss of dignity involved when personal matters cannot be kept secret due to necessity.
పుట్టిల్లు మేనమామ కెరుక.
puttillu menamama keruka.
The maternal uncle knows all about the birth house.
This proverb is used to indicate that there is no need to explain or describe something to someone who is already intimately familiar with it. Just as a maternal uncle knows everything about his own sister's home (his childhood home), an expert or an insider does not need a briefing on their own domain.
పినతండ్రి పెళ్ళాం పినతల్లి కాదు, మేనమామ పెళ్ళాం మేనత్త కాదు.
pinatandri pellam pinatalli kadu, menamama pellam menatta kadu.
Father's younger brother's wife is not a 'Pinatalli', and maternal uncle's wife is not a 'Menatta'.
This proverb is used to highlight that biological relationships and marital relationships carry different emotional weights or social expectations. It suggests that someone who enters the family through marriage might not always share the same innate affection or bond as a blood relative, or it is used to specifically define traditional kinship roles in Telugu culture where specific terms are reserved for biological relations.
మేనత్త పోలిక, మేనమామ చీలిక
menatta polika, menamama chilika
Resemblance of the paternal aunt, a fragment of the maternal uncle.
This proverb is used to describe hereditary traits in children. It suggests that a child's physical appearance or temperament often mirrors their paternal aunt (menatta) or maternal uncle (menamama). It is frequently used by family members when noticing similarities between a newborn or child and their close relatives on both parental sides.
వలచి వస్తే మేనమామ కూతురు వావి కాదన్నట్టు
valachi vaste menamama kuturu vavi kadannattu
When his uncle’s daughter wanted to marry him, he ex- cused himself on the plea that she was not of the right affinity. Proudly refusing, because it was voluntarily offered, a good thing which at another time would have been thankfully accepted. Note. Among Hindus ( especially Kômaṭis ) it is obligatory for a man to marry his maternal uncle’s daughter if there be one.
This expression describes people who devalue or reject a precious opportunity or a rightful person just because it was offered easily or without effort. In Telugu culture, marrying a maternal uncle's daughter is a socially accepted and preferred tradition; refusing such a standard match when the person is willing indicates an ungrateful or overly fastidious attitude.
తల్లి పుట్టిల్లు మేనమామ ఎరగడా?
talli puttillu menamama eragada?
Doesn't the maternal uncle know his own mother's birth home?
This proverb is used when someone tries to explain or describe something to a person who already knows it inside out. It highlights the irony of telling someone about their own roots, expertise, or a situation they are intimately familiar with.
తల్లి వెనుక మేనమామ
talli venuka menamama
The maternal uncle comes after the mother.
This expression highlights the significance and priority given to the maternal uncle (mother's brother) in a child's life and within the family hierarchy. After the mother, the maternal uncle is traditionally considered the most important guardian and support system in many Telugu households, especially regarding cultural rituals and protection.
కూడు గుండెకాయ, మెతుకు మేనమామ
kudu gundekaya, metuku menamama
Food is the heart, and every grain is like a maternal uncle.
This proverb emphasizes the supreme importance of food and survival. It suggests that food is as vital as the heart to a body, and every single grain of rice is as precious as a close protector or relative (like a maternal uncle). It is used to teach gratitude for food and to discourage wasting even a single grain.
వింతలమారికి చండ్లు వస్తే మేనమామకి కండ్లు పోయినవట.
vintalamariki chandlu vaste menamamaki kandlu poyinavata.
When the eccentric woman grew breasts, her maternal uncle lost his eyesight.
This proverb describes a situation where two unrelated events are coincidentally or spitefully linked, or more commonly, a scenario where a positive development for one person results in an unfortunate or jealous reaction/consequence for another. It is used to mock people who cannot bear to see others progress or to describe an absurd, ill-timed coincidence.
తల్లి పుట్టిల్లు మేనమామ వద్ద పొగడినట్లు
talli puttillu menamama vadda pogadinatlu
Like praising a mother's maternal home in front of the maternal uncle.
This expression describes a situation where someone tells a person something they already know very well, or tries to 'enlighten' someone on a topic they are an expert in. Since the uncle grew up in that very house, praising it to him is redundant and unnecessary.