వాపు బలుపు కాదు, వాత అందము కాదు

vapu balupu kadu, vata andamu kadu

Translation

Swelling is not strength, and a branding scar is not beauty.

Meaning

This proverb warns against mistaking unhealthy or artificial growth for true progress or strength. Just as swelling (edema) might make a limb look larger but actually indicates illness rather than muscle, superficial or temporary gains should not be confused with genuine success or health. It is used to caution people who are proud of hollow achievements.

Related Phrases

Lent property is not lasting, speech is not help. You cannot always depend upon getting a livelihood by your plani- bility.

This proverb emphasizes self-reliance and the transient nature of external aid. Just as manure only provides a temporary boost to the soil's fertility and eventually depletes, words or promises from others are not a reliable substitute for one's own actions or tangible support. It suggests that one should build their own strengths rather than depending on borrowed resources or empty talk.

Manure is not permanent, and a stream is not a companion.

This proverb highlights the temporary nature of certain aids. Just as manure only enriches the soil for a short time and a seasonal stream cannot be relied upon as a permanent water source or a steady path, one should not depend on external or temporary help for long-term stability.

Two blacks cannot come together to make one white

This proverb is the Telugu equivalent of 'Two wrongs don't make a right.' It suggests that combining two negative actions, lies, or mistakes will not result in a positive outcome or the truth.

It's not about caste, it's not about place; the potter's girl became a ghost by choice and possessed [him/her].

This expression is used when someone gets into a self-inflicted trouble or develops an obsession regardless of logic, background, or suitability. It highlights situations where problems arise not because of external circumstances, but because of a person's own stubborn desires or poor choices.

Neither a widow, nor a married woman. Said by a man kept in suspense, neither granted nor refused a request, and not knowing whether he was to be as fortunate as a married woman or as unfortunate as a widow.

This expression is used to describe someone or something that is in an ambiguous or uncertain state, belonging to neither of two distinct categories. It often refers to a person who lacks a clear identity or a situation that remains unresolved and 'in-between.'

The infatuation won't fade until the arrogance is crushed.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone's stubborn romantic obsession or infatuation is driven by ego or pride. It suggests that until their arrogance (balupu) is humbled by reality or hardship, their irrational desire (valapu) will not subside. It is often applied to people who need a reality check to stop acting on foolish impulses.

Can a mistress become a housewife, and can swelling become strength?

This proverb highlights the difference between superficial appearance and genuine substance. Just as swelling (edema) is a sign of illness and should not be mistaken for physical strength or healthy weight, a temporary or illicit relationship cannot be equated to the stability and sanctity of a committed marriage. It is used to point out that false appearances or temporary situations cannot replace reality or merit.

One eye is no eye, one son is no son.

This proverb suggests that relying on a single resource or individual is risky. Just as losing one's only eye leads to total blindness, depending on an only child (or a single point of failure) leaves one vulnerable. It is used to emphasize the importance of backups, security, or having multiple supports in life.

A tumor is not strength, and worrying is not leisure.

This proverb is used to warn against mistaking harmful growth or busywork for something positive. Just as a swelling (tumor) on the body should not be mistaken for physical strength or muscle, being constantly preoccupied with worries or anxieties should not be confused with being productive or having a meaningful engagement. It highlights the difference between healthy progress and unhealthy accumulation.

Swelling is not strength - a branding mark is not beauty.

This proverb warns against mistaking appearances or symptoms of problems for genuine quality or strength. Swelling on the body might make a muscle look bigger, but it is a sign of illness, not strength. Similarly, a scar or branding mark shouldn't be confused with natural beauty. It is used to describe situations where something superficial or negative is being misinterpreted as a positive attribute.