ఆడదే అమృతం, ఆడదే హాలాహలం

adade amritam, adade halahalam

Translation

Woman is the nectar, and woman is the poison.

Meaning

This expression highlights the dual nature of influence a woman can have on a person or a household. It suggests that a woman has the power to bring immense happiness and prosperity (like nectar/amrutam) or cause complete destruction and misery (like poison/halam) depending on her character and actions.

Related Phrases

Whatever comes to one's share is the divine nectar.

This expression is used to convey the idea of being content with what one receives or what is available, rather than complaining or desiring more. It suggests that whatever is destined for you or comes your way should be accepted with gratitude, treating it as something sacred or precious.

Nectar is like a fig fruit in its beauty and appearance.

This expression is often used to describe something that looks extremely appealing or perfect on the outside, much like the luscious appearance of a fig fruit, but suggests a deeper level of sweetness or hidden complexity. In a broader sense, it refers to something that is visually delightful and of high quality.

Warmth from a wife is like the best nectar; oh hidden husband, please stay separate.

This proverb describes a hypocritical situation where a person praises something or someone in theory but acts selfishly or pushes them away in practice. It is used to mock people who speak sweet words of affection but refuse to share resources or live together when it comes to actual commitment.

One person's nectar is another person's poison

This expression is the Telugu equivalent of 'One man's meat is another man's poison.' It means that what is beneficial, enjoyable, or positive for one individual might be harmful, unpleasant, or toxic for someone else. It highlights the subjective nature of value and preference.

If a child eats it, it is a snack; if an elder eats it, it is a meal (sanctified food).

This proverb highlights social double standards or how the same action is perceived differently depending on the status, age, or authority of the person performing it. It is often used to point out hypocrisy or how powerful people can justify their actions while others are judged for the same.

Delay makes even nectar turn into poison

This expression highlights the importance of punctuality and taking timely action. It suggests that even the best opportunities or benefits can lose their value or become harmful if one hesitates or procrastinates for too long.

Hungry man's food is nectar, and the one who gives without hesitation is the true donor.

This expression emphasizes that when one is truly hungry, even the simplest food tastes like nectar (divine food). Similarly, a person who gives generously and without reluctance when someone is in need is considered a true philanthropist. It is used to describe the value of things based on necessity and the virtue of selfless giving.

Rain during the Arudra season is equal to nectar.

This is an agricultural proverb highlighting the importance of the Arudra Karthe (a specific astronomical period in the Telugu calendar). Farmers believe that rainfall during this period is extremely beneficial for crops, acting like a life-giving elixir (Amrutham) that ensures a high yield and healthy soil.

If you exceed the bounds of moderation nectar too is poison.

This proverb emphasizes the importance of moderation in everything. Just as life-giving nectar can become harmful if consumed excessively, any good thing becomes detrimental when done or used beyond its limits. It is used to advise someone against overindulgence or overdoing a particular task.

Like finding nectar while drinking porridge.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unexpectedly receives something very valuable or high-quality while they are engaged in a humble or ordinary task. It signifies a stroke of immense good fortune that far exceeds one's current expectations or needs.