అల్లూరమ్మ జాతరకు తల్లిమాడ, పిల్లామాడ

alluramma jataraku tallimada, pillamada

Translation

For the Alluramma fair, a gold coin for the mother and a gold coin for the child.

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a situation where the expenses or taxes associated with an event are so high that they exceed the value or benefit of the event itself. It highlights a scenario where every person, regardless of age or status, is charged excessively, making the endeavor unaffordable or illogical.

Related Phrases

Like going to a village fair relying on a paramour

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone relies on an unreliable or untrustworthy person for support, only to be abandoned when they are needed most. It highlights the foolishness of trusting someone who has no real commitment to you, leading to inevitable disappointment and helplessness in a public or critical situation.

Along with the pride of food comes all other forms of pride.

This expression suggests that basic sustenance and wealth (symbolized by 'anna' or rice/food) are the root causes of all other types of arrogance or ego. When a person is well-fed and prosperous, they are more likely to develop pride in other aspects of their life. It is often used to counsel humility or to describe how sudden wealth can lead to boastful behavior.

A festival celebrated for a corpse

This expression refers to a situation where a lot of effort, money, or energy is spent on something that is already useless or dead. It describes a futile act or an event where there is no appreciation or benefit, as the recipient is unable to enjoy or respond to the efforts made.

Distance of eight miles between the woman and her husband.

This expression is used to describe a couple who are legally married but live separately or have no emotional or physical connection. It signifies a state of total estrangement or a complete lack of intimacy in a relationship.

Anger toward the mother is taken out on the child.

This proverb describes a situation where a person redirects their frustration or anger from its original source toward someone else who is vulnerable or associated with that source. It is used to point out unfair treatment where an innocent party suffers for someone else's mistake or due to a displaced grudge.

Carrying a corpse in procession.

This expression refers to a wasted effort or a pointless celebration. Just as organizing a grand festival or carnival for a dead person is useless and provides no benefit to the subject, it describes actions taken or resources spent where they are completely unappreciated or ineffective.

A vain ceremony.

A mother's shadow/influence cannot be escaped by the child.

This proverb is the Telugu equivalent of 'Like mother, like daughter' or 'The apple doesn't fall far from the tree'. It implies that a child (specifically a daughter) will naturally inherit the traits, character, and habits of her mother.

Like burying the work and going to a basket fair

This proverb is used to describe a person who neglects their important responsibilities or duties to pursue trivial or unimportant activities. It highlights a lack of priority where one 'buries' (ignores) their essential tasks to attend a festive event or distraction.

Will the child (daughter) fail to follow in its mother's track ?

This proverb suggests that offspring will naturally inherit the traits, habits, or path of their parents. It is often used to imply that children inevitably follow in their parents' footsteps, whether for better or worse, similar to how a calf follows the furrow made by the mother cow.

She hath a mark after her mother. As the old cock crows, so crows the young. " As is the mother so is her daughter." Ezekiel xvi. 44.

Mother Gruel / Mother Fermented Rice Water

This expression refers to 'Taravani' (the water drained from cooked rice and fermented overnight), personifying it as a nourishing mother. In Telugu culture, it signifies the humble yet highly nutritious food that sustained poor or rural families, emphasizing simplicity, health, and gratitude for basic sustenance.