ఆలుమగల కలహం అద్దంమీద పెసరగింజ ఉన్నంతసేపే
alumagala kalaham addammida pesaraginja unnantasepe
A quarrel between a husband and wife lasts only as long as a green gram stays on a mirror.
This proverb highlights the transient nature of domestic disputes between couples. Just as a small, smooth seed like a green gram cannot find a grip and quickly slides off a slippery surface like a mirror, a disagreement between a married couple is expected to be fleeting and will resolve itself very quickly.
Related Phrases
అద్దము మీద పెసరగింజ పడ్డట్టు
addamu mida pesaraginja paddattu
Like a Pesara seed on a looking glass. Used with reference to a remark aimed at a particular person, but con- veyed in such general terms that he is unable to take notice of it. He said devil, but meant you. (Dutch.)
This expression describes something that is extremely unstable or short-lived. Just as a small, round green gram seed cannot stay still on a smooth, slippery surface like a mirror and slides off immediately, this phrase is used to refer to people who don't stick to their word, or situations that are highly precarious and transient.
కాలము నాటి కందిగింజ, పెద్దల నాటి పెసరగింజ.
kalamu nati kandiginja, peddala nati pesaraginja.
In the ages past he was Kandi and in the time of his fore- fathers he was Pesara. Said of a prosy old fellow who spins long yarns.
This expression is used to highlight the decline in quality, health, or size of things over generations. It suggests that what was considered small or ordinary in the past (like a green gram) is comparable or superior to what is considered significant today (like a pigeon pea), emphasizing the strength and richness of the olden days.
అద్దం మీద పెసరగింజ పడ్డట్లు
addam mida pesaraginja paddatlu
Like a green gram falling on a mirror.
This expression is used to describe something that slides off or fails to stick, just as a smooth seed would bounce or slip off a glass surface. It is often used to characterize a person who is unaffected by advice, warnings, or criticism, or to describe a situation where efforts have no lasting impact.
ఆలుమగల కలహం, ఆరికకూడు వండినంతసేపే.
alumagala kalaham, arikakudu vandinantasepe.
A dispute between a husband and wife lasts only as long as it takes to cook millet.
This proverb highlights the temporary and fleeting nature of domestic quarrels between a married couple. Kodo millet (arika) cooks very quickly; similarly, the disagreement between a couple is expected to resolve by the time their next meal is prepared, suggesting that they shouldn't hold grudges.
ఆలూ మొగుని సందు పోట్లాట అద్దము మీద పెసరగింజ వేసినంత సేపు
alu moguni sandu potlata addamu mida pesaraginja vesinanta sepu
A quarrel between man and wife only lasts as long as a Pesara seed stays on a looking glass.
This proverb describes the fleeting nature of domestic quarrels between a married couple. Just as a smooth, round seed cannot stay on a slippery mirror and falls off instantly, the arguments between a husband and wife are temporary and resolve very quickly. It is used to advise others not to interfere in a couple's small tiffs, as they will reconcile almost immediately.
ఆలుమగల కలహం, అన్నం తినేదాకానే.
alumagala kalaham, annam tinedakane.
A quarrel between husband and wife lasts only until they sit down to eat.
This proverb suggests that conflicts between a married couple are temporary and short-lived. It highlights the idea that domestic disputes are usually resolved quickly, often by the time the next meal is shared, emphasizing reconciliation over holding grudges.
కుక్క బుద్ధి దాలికుంటలో ఉన్నంతసేపే
kukka buddhi dalikuntalo unnantasepe
A dog's behavior remains calm only as long as it is in the fireplace ash pit.
This proverb is used to describe a person whose nature or bad habits are only temporarily suppressed due to their current circumstances or surroundings. Just as a dog stays quiet and still while enjoying the warmth of the warm ashes in a fireplace (dalikunta) but returns to its restless or barking nature the moment it leaves, some people only behave well when it is convenient or comfortable for them.
కలిమి ఉన్నంతసేపే బలగం, కండ ఉన్నంతసేపే మిండడు
kalimi unnantasepe balagam, kanda unnantasepe mindadu
Relatives stay as long as there is wealth, a lover stays as long as there is physical strength.
This proverb highlights the transient and opportunistic nature of human relationships. It suggests that most people surround you only for their own benefit; relatives and friends stick around for your money, while romantic interests may stay only for physical vitality or prowess. Once these assets are gone, the people often disappear.
కాలంనాటికందిగింజ, పెద్దలనాటి పెసరగింజ
kalamnatikandiginja, peddalanati pesaraginja
A pigeon pea from the olden times, a green gram from the ancestors' times
This expression is used to describe something that is extremely old, ancient, or outdated. It often refers to objects, traditions, or ideas that have been preserved for generations, sometimes implying they are long-lasting and at other times suggesting they are archaic.
కలిమి ఉన్నంతసేపు బలగము, కండ ఉన్నంతసేపు మిండడు
kalimi unnantasepu balagamu, kanda unnantasepu mindadu
As long as there is wealth, there are followers; as long as there is physical strength, there is a lover.
This proverb highlights the transient and opportunistic nature of human relationships. It suggests that people often stay around others only for selfish reasons—either for money or physical attraction—and may desert them once those assets are gone. It is used to describe fair-weather friends or superficial bonds.