ఆశ బోధిస్తున్నది అవమానం బాధిస్తున్నది

asha bodhistunnadi avamanam badhistunnadi

Translation

Desire teaches, while insult hurts.

Meaning

This proverb highlights the conflict between ambition and self-respect. It describes a situation where a person's greed or desire pushes them to keep trying for something, even while they are being insulted or humiliated in the process. It is used to mock someone who ignores their dignity in pursuit of gain.

Related Phrases

The village tells you to leave, the graveyard tells you to come.

This proverb is used to describe someone who is very old and near the end of their life. It signifies that their time in the world of the living (the village) is over, and they are ready for the afterlife or burial ground (the graveyard).

If it rains during the Mrigashira star, it will thunder during the Makha star.

This is an agricultural proverb related to rainfall patterns based on lunar mansions (Nakshatras). It suggests a correlation between early monsoon rains and later weather patterns: if there are good rains in early June (Mrigashira), it predicts heavy thundering or favorable weather conditions in late August (Makha), ensuring a good harvest cycle.

When an ugly person was asked what they were doing, they said, 'I am mocking the beautiful ones.'

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person who lacks talent, skill, or merit criticizes or mocks those who are superior or successful. It highlights the irony of someone with significant flaws trying to find faults in others who are far better than themselves, often out of jealousy or insecurity.

That which is destined to come will not fail to come; that which is destined to go will not fail to go.

This expression is used to convey a sense of fatalism or acceptance of destiny. It suggests that certain events in life are inevitable, whether they involve gains or losses, and one should remain equanimous because human effort cannot alter what is preordained.

The spinning wheel is come, out the way with your cart. I ask your pardon, coach; I thought you were a wheelbarrow when I stumbled over you. (Irish.)

This expression is used to highlight a mismatch in priorities or a lack of common sense. It refers to someone making an unnecessary fuss or clearing a large path for a very small, insignificant object. It is used when someone overreacts to a minor situation or demands resources that are disproportionate to the task at hand.

When asked what idle Paparaju is doing, he is carving designs on a rabbit's horn.

This proverb is used to describe a person who, having no useful work to do, engages in completely futile, impossible, or nonsensical tasks. Since rabbits do not have horns, 'carving designs on a rabbit's horn' signifies wasting time on something that doesn't exist or doesn't matter.

Desire incites, the fear of shame prevents. Shame may restrain what the law does not prohibit.

This expression describes a psychological conflict where a person is tempted to pursue a goal because of hope, even though they are suffering from the humiliation or insults faced in that pursuit. It is used to describe situations where one's ambition or desire is so strong that they endure disrespect, though it continues to cause them pain.

Laughing, they do it; weeping, they suffer for it.

This proverb is used to warn someone that the actions or mistakes they commit lightheartedly or out of greed will eventually lead to painful consequences that they will have to endure with regret.

Said of criminals.

The word 'Give' is not in this house. The word 'Bring' has been coming for generations.

This proverb is used to describe an extremely stingy or selfish person or family. It highlights a nature where they are always ready to take or receive from others ('Bring'), but never willing to offer or give anything back ('Give').

Hope teaches, while humiliation hurts.

This proverb describes the internal conflict between ambition and pride. It means that while one's desires and hopes encourage them to keep trying or pursue something, the fear or experience of insults and humiliation causes pain and discouragement. It is often used to describe someone who continues to pursue a goal despite facing repetitive disrespect.