చాపమీద జరిగింది సరసం, పక్కమీద జరిగింది ప్రణయం.
chapamida jarigindi sarasam, pakkamida jarigindi pranayam.
What happened on the mat was flirting; what happened on the bed was romance.
This expression is used to distinguish between levels of intimacy or formality based on the setting. It suggests that casual settings lead to lighthearted or superficial interactions, whereas more established or formal settings represent deeper commitment or serious relationships. It is often used to comment on the evolution of a relationship or the appropriateness of behavior in different environments.
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తిన మరిగిన ప్రాణం అల్లాడి చచ్చిందట.
tina marigina pranam alladi chachchindata.
A life habituated to eating died out of restlessness.
This proverb describes a person who becomes so addicted to a certain luxury, comfort, or habit that they suffer immensely or perish when they can no longer access it. It is used to caution against developing excessive dependencies or greed.
కలలో జరిగింది ఇలలో జరుగదు
kalalo jarigindi ilalo jarugadu
What happened in a dream will not happen on earth (reality).
This expression is used to remind someone that dreams, fantasies, or unrealistic expectations do not translate to real-life outcomes. It serves as a grounded piece of advice to distinguish between imagination and the practical world.
తపము పండినమీద జడలు తాల్చడమెందుకు?
tapamu pandinamida jadalu talchadamenduku?
Why continue to wear matted hair after the penance has borne fruit?
This proverb highlights the redundancy of maintaining symbolic rituals or external appearances once the ultimate goal has been achieved. It is used when someone continues to struggle or perform tedious tasks even after the desired success or wisdom has been attained.
వాడికి నలభై తగిలింది.
vadiki nalabhai tagilindi.
Forty has hit him.
This expression is used to indicate that a man has reached the age of 40. It often carries a connotation that the person is getting older, reaching a mid-life milestone, or perhaps losing some of their youthful energy/hair.
తిన మరిగిన కోడి ఇల్లెక్కి కూసిందట
tina marigina kodi illekki kusindata
The hen that got used to eating (getting fed) ended up crowing from the rooftop.
This proverb describes a situation where someone who is pampered or given too much freedom eventually becomes arrogant, loses their boundaries, and starts behaving inappropriately. It is used to caution against over-indulging someone to the point where they lose respect for rules or hierarchy.
కూటికి జరిగితే కోటికి జరిగినట్లు
kutiki jarigite kotiki jariginatlu
If there is enough for food, it is as if there is a crore (ten million).
This proverb emphasizes the importance of basic sustenance and contentment. It suggests that if a person has enough resources to afford a meal or basic livelihood, they should feel as satisfied and secure as a person who possesses immense wealth. It is often used to counsel someone to be grateful for their basic needs being met.
ద్రావిడ ప్రాణాయామం
dravida pranayamam
Dravidian Pranayama
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone takes a complex, roundabout way to do something that could be done simply and directly. It refers to the act of reaching around the back of the head to touch the nose instead of touching it directly from the front.
అరిగిన కంచు, మురిగిన చారు
arigina kanchu, murigina charu
Worn-out bronze and fermented (spoiled) rasam.
This expression is used to describe things that are either useless or highly unpleasant. 'Worn-out bronze' refers to an object that has lost its value or function through overuse, while 'fermented rasam' refers to something that was once good but has now turned foul or toxic. It is often used to criticize poor quality or the bad state of affairs.
బిడ్డ చచ్చినా బారసాల బాగా జరిగింది
bidda chachchina barasala baga jarigindi
Even though the child died, the naming ceremony went well.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where the primary purpose or the main goal of an event is lost or failed, but the superficial or secondary formalities were celebrated successfully. It highlights the irony of focusing on the process or celebration while ignoring a catastrophic outcome.
కలలో జరిగింది ఇలలో జరగదు
kalalo jarigindi ilalo jaragadu
What happened in a dream will not happen on the earth
This expression is used to remind someone that dreams or fantasies are often disconnected from reality. It suggests that one should not expect their idealistic visions or imaginary scenarios to manifest exactly as they are in real life, emphasizing the need for practical thinking.