దొరా తగులుకొంటున్నావు, ఏమిస్తావో దొరా? అంటే, నీ మనసు మెప్పించి తలకేదో పాత సంపాదించుకోవాలనుకున్నానమ్మా అన్నాడట.

dora tagulukontunnavu, emistavo dora? ante, ni manasu meppinchi talakedo pata sampadinchukovalanukunnanamma annadata.

Translation

When asked, 'You are clinging to me, Lord, what will you give?', he replied, 'I hoped to please your heart and earn some old cloth for my head, mother.'

Meaning

This expression describes a situation where someone persistently flatters or follows a person of authority not out of genuine respect, but with a calculated, humble expectation of receiving a small favor or handout. It highlights the transactional nature of sycophancy.

Related Phrases

Age of an old ox, heart of a young bull calf.

This proverb is used to describe an elderly person who continues to have youthful desires, enthusiasm, or immature thoughts that do not match their actual age. It highlights the contrast between physical aging and a youthful or spirited mindset.

Through words, one can earn estates or honors.

This expression emphasizes the power of effective communication and eloquence. It suggests that if one speaks wisely, politely, or persuasively, they can gain great wealth, lands, or respect in society without physical labor.

O mother-in-law, should you accuse me and bring a reproach on yourself in return ?

This expression is used sarcastically or ironically when someone tries to cover up their obvious mistakes or bad behavior by pretending to be concerned about their reputation. It originates from a folk story where a daughter-in-law behaves poorly and then asks if she deserves the bad name she is getting, highlighting hypocrisy.

Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

Thieves' wealth ends up in the hands of rulers.

This proverb implies that wealth acquired through illegal or unethical means will never be enjoyed by the person who took it; instead, it will eventually be confiscated by authorities, lost to others, or spent on fines and legal issues. It is used to suggest that ill-gotten gains do not stay with the wrongdoer.

If goats escape, they go to the acacia thorns; if outcasts escape, they go to the wild date palms.

This proverb describes people returning to their habitual environments or choosing paths that align with their nature or circumstances. It is used to suggest that individuals will naturally gravitate toward familiar settings or specific struggles even when they try to break away.

Like trying to escape one thing and getting stuck with another.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone tries to avoid a problem or a minor inconvenience, but in doing so, accidentally lands themselves in a bigger trouble or a different mess. It is similar to the English idiom 'Out of the frying pan and into the fire.'

Even if life is lost, honor must be saved.

This proverb emphasizes that one's dignity and honor are far more important than physical existence. It is used to inspire integrity and courage, suggesting that it is better to die with honor than to live in disgrace or shame.

When asked 'What are you doing?', he replied, 'I am spilling it and then picking it up'.

This proverb is used to describe someone who engages in useless, counterproductive, or repetitive work that yields no results. It highlights the behavior of creating a problem just to solve it, or performing tasks that are essentially a waste of time and effort.

Even if life is lost, one must protect their honor.

This expression emphasizes that self-respect and dignity are more valuable than life itself. It is used to encourage someone to uphold their integrity and reputation even in the face of extreme adversity or life-threatening situations.

When [someone] is crying because their stomach is burning [from hunger], she asked 'What maintenance/allowance will you give?'.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person is suffering from a fundamental or immediate crisis, but someone else offers an irrelevant, future, or secondary solution instead of addressing the urgent need. It highlights the disconnect between a person's basic needs and the superficial help being offered.