ఏడాటం మొగుడికి ఎత్తుబారం పెండ్లాము
edatam mogudiki ettubaram pendlamu
For a stubborn husband, a rebellious wife.
This proverb describes a couple where both partners are difficult or non-cooperative in their own ways. If the husband is argumentative or perverse in his behavior, the wife matches him by being unyielding or burdensome. It is used to describe a pair that is perfectly matched in their negative traits or lack of harmony.
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ఎత్తుబారం సంజచీకటి
ettubaram sanjachikati
An elevated load and the evening darkness.
This expression refers to a situation where a person is burdened with a heavy responsibility or task at the very last moment or when time is running out. It signifies the difficulty of managing a heavy load (literal or metaphorical) when the circumstances (like fading light) are becoming unfavorable.
యతి మతం మొగుడికి ఎత్తుభారపు పెళ్ళాం.
yati matam mogudiki ettubharapu pellam.
A husband following an ascetic's religion and a wife who is too heavy to lift.
This proverb describes a highly incompatible or mismatched pair. It refers to a situation where one person's lifestyle or beliefs (like a husband wanting to live like an ascetic/monk) are completely at odds with their responsibilities or the nature of their partner (a wife who requires physical support or attention), leading to constant struggle and lack of harmony.
ఏనుగు ఎత్తుబడ్డా గుట్టిమంత ఎత్తు.
enugu ettubadda guttimanta ettu.
Even if an elephant falls down, it is still as high as a hillock.
This proverb is used to describe a person or entity that was once great, wealthy, or powerful. Even after facing a significant downfall or loss, their remaining stature, dignity, or assets are still far superior to those of an ordinary person.
సిగ్గంత పోయె చిన్న పెండ్లామా? పెండ్లికన్న పోదాం పెద్ద పెండ్లామా? అన్నాడట!
sigganta poye chinna pendlama? pendlikanna podam pedda pendlama? annadata!
All shame is gone, junior wife; shall we at least go to the wedding, senior wife?
This expression is used to describe a person who lacks self-respect or has already lost their reputation and continues to act shamelessly without concern for social standing. It highlights a situation where someone, having already suffered a major embarrassment or failure, behaves as if nothing happened or tries to seek further social engagement despite their loss of dignity.
పినతండ్రి పెండ్లాము పినతల్లి కాదు, మేనమామ పెండ్లాము మేనత్త కాదు.
pinatandri pendlamu pinatalli kadu, menamama pendlamu menatta kadu.
Your paternal uncle's wife is not your maternal aunt; your maternal uncle's wife is not your paternal aunt.
This proverb highlights the nuances of relationships and blood ties. It suggests that while people may hold certain titles or positions through marriage, they do not necessarily inherit the same biological significance or emotional depth as the original relative. It is often used to caution against expecting the same level of care or loyalty from relatives by marriage as one would from blood relatives.
గుడ్డి మొగుడికి రేజీకటి పెండ్లాం
guddi mogudiki rejikati pendlam
A night-blind wife for a blind husband.
This proverb describes a situation where two people are equally incompetent or have complementary flaws, making them a perfectly matched but dysfunctional pair. It is used to mock a situation where no one involved has the ability to fix a problem or provide proper guidance.
రేచీకటి మొగుడికి గుడ్డి పెళ్లాము
rechikati mogudiki guddi pellamu
A blind wife for a husband with night blindness.
This proverb describes a situation where two people who have similar weaknesses or limitations come together, making it impossible for them to help each other. It is used to mock a match or partnership where neither party can compensate for the other's flaws, leading to total inefficiency.
అతిమొత్తం మగనికి ఎత్తుబారపు పెండ్లాము
atimottam maganiki ettubarapu pendlamu
For a very short husband, a very tall wife.
This proverb describes a mismatch or an ill-suited pairing. It is used to point out situations where two entities, people, or things are completely incompatible or disproportionate to each other, making the combination look awkward or impractical.
ఎత్తుబారం మొత్తుకోళ్ళు
ettubaram mottukollu
Lifting the burden and then beating one's chest in grief.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily takes on a responsibility or burden and then complains or laments about the difficulty and stress it causes. It highlights the irony of self-inflicted hardship.
ఎత్తుబారపు పెండ్లికి ఏకాలు పెట్టినా ఒకటే.
ettubarapu pendliki ekalu pettina okate.
For a wedding that is bound to fail, it is all the same even if you offer a helping hand.
This proverb is used to describe a situation or task that is fundamentally flawed or destined for failure from the start. In such cases, no matter how much effort, support, or 'legs' (assistance) you provide, the outcome will remain the same. It suggests that some things are beyond saving despite intervention.