ఏడాటం మొగుడికి ఎత్తుబారం పెండ్లాము

edatam mogudiki ettubaram pendlamu

Translation

For a stubborn husband, a rebellious wife.

Meaning

This proverb describes a couple where both partners are difficult or non-cooperative in their own ways. If the husband is argumentative or perverse in his behavior, the wife matches him by being unyielding or burdensome. It is used to describe a pair that is perfectly matched in their negative traits or lack of harmony.

Related Phrases

An elevated load and the evening darkness.

This expression refers to a situation where a person is burdened with a heavy responsibility or task at the very last moment or when time is running out. It signifies the difficulty of managing a heavy load (literal or metaphorical) when the circumstances (like fading light) are becoming unfavorable.

A husband following an ascetic's religion and a wife who is too heavy to lift.

This proverb describes a highly incompatible or mismatched pair. It refers to a situation where one person's lifestyle or beliefs (like a husband wanting to live like an ascetic/monk) are completely at odds with their responsibilities or the nature of their partner (a wife who requires physical support or attention), leading to constant struggle and lack of harmony.

Even if an elephant falls down, it is still as high as a hillock.

This proverb is used to describe a person or entity that was once great, wealthy, or powerful. Even after facing a significant downfall or loss, their remaining stature, dignity, or assets are still far superior to those of an ordinary person.

All shame is gone, junior wife; shall we at least go to the wedding, senior wife?

This expression is used to describe a person who lacks self-respect or has already lost their reputation and continues to act shamelessly without concern for social standing. It highlights a situation where someone, having already suffered a major embarrassment or failure, behaves as if nothing happened or tries to seek further social engagement despite their loss of dignity.

Your paternal uncle's wife is not your maternal aunt; your maternal uncle's wife is not your paternal aunt.

This proverb highlights the nuances of relationships and blood ties. It suggests that while people may hold certain titles or positions through marriage, they do not necessarily inherit the same biological significance or emotional depth as the original relative. It is often used to caution against expecting the same level of care or loyalty from relatives by marriage as one would from blood relatives.

A night-blind wife for a blind husband.

This proverb describes a situation where two people are equally incompetent or have complementary flaws, making them a perfectly matched but dysfunctional pair. It is used to mock a situation where no one involved has the ability to fix a problem or provide proper guidance.

A blind wife for a husband with night blindness.

This proverb describes a situation where two people who have similar weaknesses or limitations come together, making it impossible for them to help each other. It is used to mock a match or partnership where neither party can compensate for the other's flaws, leading to total inefficiency.

For a very short husband, a very tall wife.

This proverb describes a mismatch or an ill-suited pairing. It is used to point out situations where two entities, people, or things are completely incompatible or disproportionate to each other, making the combination look awkward or impractical.

Lifting the burden and then beating one's chest in grief.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily takes on a responsibility or burden and then complains or laments about the difficulty and stress it causes. It highlights the irony of self-inflicted hardship.

For a wedding that is bound to fail, it is all the same even if you offer a helping hand.

This proverb is used to describe a situation or task that is fundamentally flawed or destined for failure from the start. In such cases, no matter how much effort, support, or 'legs' (assistance) you provide, the outcome will remain the same. It suggests that some things are beyond saving despite intervention.