తద్దినం పెట్టేవాని తమ్మునివలె
taddinam pettevani tammunivale
Like the younger brother of the person performing the death anniversary ritual.
This expression is used to describe someone who stands around idly or avoids work while others are busy with a significant task. In traditional rituals, the person performing the ceremony is busy, but the younger brother often has no specific role and simply watches, signifying laziness or lack of responsibility during a time of action.
Related Phrases
అన్నెం పున్నెం తినడానికి ఆలితమ్ముడు, అబ్బ తద్దినం పెట్టడానికి మగని తమ్ముడు
annem punnem tinadaniki alitammudu, abba taddinam pettadaniki magani tammudu
Wife's brother for eating and enjoying, husband's brother for performing the father's funeral rites.
This proverb describes a double standard or opportunistic behavior where one chooses specific relatives based on convenience. It highlights a scenario where a woman prefers her own brother (ali tammudu) to share in food and festivities, but expects her husband's brother (magani tammudu) to take on the difficult, somber, or obligatory tasks like religious rituals. It is used to criticize those who seek out people for pleasure but delegate responsibilities to others.
లంజకొడుకు తండ్రికి తద్దినం పెట్టినట్టు
lanjakoduku tandriki taddinam pettinattu
Like a bastard performing his father's annual ceremonies.
This expression is used to describe an act that is fundamentally hypocritical, logically inconsistent, or performed by someone who has no legitimate right or genuine respect for the tradition they are following. It refers to doing something just for outward appearance while the very identity or situation of the person contradicts the act itself.
ఏడ్చి తద్దినం పెట్టించుకున్నట్లు
edchi taddinam pettinchukunnatlu
Like crying and getting a death anniversary performed.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone performs a task or fulfills an obligation with great reluctance, lack of interest, or while complaining, rather than doing it willingly or happily. It implies that the person is doing something just for the sake of finishing it, often ruining the spirit of the activity.
తవుడు తిని చచ్చేవానికి విషం పెట్టేవాడు వెట్టి.
tavudu tini chachchevaniki visham pettevadu vetti.
He who gives poison to a person who is already dying by eating bran is a fool.
This expression is used to describe a redundant or unnecessary action. If someone is already facing ruin due to their own poor choices or circumstances, there is no need to actively work against them or waste resources to cause their downfall. It highlights the foolishness of over-exerting oneself to harm someone who is already self-destructing.
తద్దినం కొని తెచ్చుకున్నట్టు
taddinam koni techchukunnattu
Like buying and bringing home a funeral ceremony.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone unnecessarily invites trouble or a burden upon themselves through their own actions. It implies that a problem which didn't exist was intentionally 'purchased' or brought home by the individual.
పట్టేవర్ధనం పెట్టేను పాదపూజ చేయమన్నాడట
pattevardhanam pettenu padapuja cheyamannadata
He asked for a feet-washing ceremony while being confined to a narrow wooden plank.
This expression is used to describe a person who, despite being in a pitiable or destitute condition, demands excessive respect or luxuries. It mocks the irony of having 'high tastes' or 'big demands' when one doesn't even have basic necessities.
పనసకాయ దొరికినప్పుడే తద్దినం పెట్టమన్నట్లు
panasakaya dorikinappude taddinam pettamannatlu
Like asking to perform a death anniversary ceremony just because a jackfruit was found.
This proverb describes someone who tries to force an event or a major task to happen prematurely just because they have one of the necessary ingredients or favorable conditions available at that moment. It highlights the absurdity of rushing significant rituals or plans based on minor, incidental conveniences rather than the appropriate time or necessity.
తద్దినము కొని తెచ్చుకొన్నట్టు.
taddinamu koni techchukonnattu.
Buying a Taddinam. Bringing difficulties upon one's own head.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily invites trouble or creates a headache for themselves by their own actions or choices. It is similar to the English expression 'to go looking for trouble' or 'asking for it.'
* Alterâ manu scabunt, altera ferunt.
చచ్చేవాడికి తమ్ముడు, పుట్టేవాడికి అన్న
chachchevadiki tammudu, puttevadiki anna
Younger brother to the one dying, elder brother to the one being born
This expression describes a person who is in a middle-aged or transitional stage of life. It is often used to refer to someone who is neither too young nor too old, bridging the gap between generations, or someone who is an experienced adult who has seen both the end of one era and the start of another.
తద్దినంనాటి జందెం వలె.
taddinamnati jandem vale.
Like the sacred thread on the day of a funeral ceremony.
This expression is used to describe something that is done at the very last minute or is desperately sought when it is already too late. It refers to the ritual requirement of having a new sacred thread for a ceremony, but only realizing it's missing or trying to prepare it exactly when the ritual is supposed to start.