ఇచ్చిపుచ్చుకోనివాడు గిచ్చిగిచ్చి చంపె
ichchipuchchukonivadu gichchigichchi champe
The one who doesn't give or take killed by pinching repeatedly.
This proverb refers to a person who is extremely stingy or stubborn in dealings. Instead of resolving a situation through mutual exchange or compromise, such a person makes things miserable for others through petty, annoying, or persistent troubles (symbolized by pinching). It is used to describe the suffocating nature of dealing with someone who lacks the spirit of cooperation.
Related Phrases
అచ్చిగాడు చావనీ అంటే, బుచ్చిగాడే చచ్చేనట
achchigadu chavani ante, buchchigade chachchenata
When it was said let Achigadu die, it was Buchigadu who died.
This expression is used when a situation turns out contrary to expectations or when an unintended person suffers instead of the one who was supposed to. It highlights irony, bad luck, or the unpredictability of outcomes where the target remains safe but an innocent or different party is affected.
ఇచ్చినమ్మ ఈగ, పుచ్చుకొన్నమ్మ పులి
ichchinamma iga, puchchukonnamma puli
The giver is a housefly, the receiver is a tiger.
This proverb highlights the irony and unfairness in certain transactions or interpersonal dynamics. The person who gives or lends something is often timid, weak, or hesitant (like a fly) when asking for it back, while the person who received it becomes aggressive, demanding, or fierce (like a tiger) when it is time to return the favor or the item.
ఇచ్చి పుచ్చుకొని మొగుడి వీపెల్లా తడివినట్టు.
ichchi puchchukoni mogudi vipella tadivinattu.
She gave it, took it back again, and looked on her husband's back for it.
This proverb describes a situation where someone performs a transaction or gives something, but then immediately starts calculating, inspecting, or being overly suspicious and meticulous about what they get in return. It implies a lack of trust or an obsessive nature in dealings, often used when someone tries to find faults or re-evaluate a deal that is already done.
పొత్తుల మగడు పుచ్చి చచ్చెను.
pottula magadu puchchi chachchenu.
The joint-husband was neglected and died.
This proverb describes a situation where a task or responsibility shared by many people ends up being neglected because everyone assumes someone else will take care of it. It is the Telugu equivalent of 'Everybody's business is nobody's business.' It is used when collective responsibility leads to total failure.
The ass that is common property is always the worst saddled. ( French. )*
ఇచ్చిపుచ్చుకొని మొగుడి వీపెల్లా తడివినట్లు
ichchipuchchukoni mogudi vipella tadivinatlu
Like feeling the husband's back after giving and taking.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone performs a task or a transaction with excessive, unnecessary thoroughness or repetitive checking, often out of suspicion, obsession, or to ensure they haven't lost out. It implies a sense of redundant verification or over-scrutinizing something that is already settled.
ఇచ్చింది ఇచ్చి పుచ్చుకున్నట్లు
ichchindi ichchi puchchukunnatlu
Giving what was given and taking back what was taken
This expression is used to describe a situation where an exchange or transaction results in no net gain or change, essentially returning to the original state. It is often used to describe futile efforts or circular logic where one ends up exactly where they started.
అచ్చి పెళ్ళి బుచ్చి చావుకు వచ్చిందట
achchi pelli buchchi chavuku vachchindata
Achi's wedding ended up leading to Buchi's death.
This expression is used to describe a situation where a celebration or a positive event unintentionally leads to a disaster or a tragic outcome for someone else. It highlights the irony of a festive occasion turning into a cause for sorrow due to unforeseen circumstances or mismanagement.
అచ్చిపెళ్ళి బుచ్చి చావుకు వచ్చింది
achchipelli buchchi chavuku vachchindi
Achi's wedding led to Buchi's death
This proverb is used to describe a situation where one person's celebration or positive event unexpectedly results in trouble or a disaster for someone else. It highlights unintended negative consequences or a stroke of bad luck occurring simultaneously with a good event.
కుచ్చు కుదుటిలో పెడితే, విచ్చుకొని వీధిలోకి వచ్చినట్లు
kuchchu kudutilo pedite, vichchukoni vidhiloki vachchinatlu
Like a tassel placed in a fixed spot that unfurls and reaches the street
This expression refers to a situation where a secret or a private matter, despite attempts to keep it contained or 'tucked in,' spreads rapidly and becomes public knowledge. It is used to describe how certain information or rumors are impossible to hide once they start leaking out.
ఉమ్మడి గొర్రె పుచ్చి చచ్చింది
ummadi gorre puchchi chachchindi
The sheep which was the joint property of two persons, was deserted and died.
This proverb highlights the lack of individual responsibility in shared tasks. When a sheep is owned by multiple people in partnership, everyone assumes someone else is looking after its health, leading to neglect and its eventual death. It is used to describe situations where communal property or joint projects fail because no one takes specific ownership or accountability.
The ass of many owners is eaten by wolves. (Spanish.)* Between two stools fall to the bottom.